Ok, I have this guy friend (not boyfriend or anything of that sort) and I like him and all and he likes me. I've never been fingered nor have I ever jacked someone off. This guy asked me to jack him off and he wants to play with me. What should I do? He's not my boyfriend so should I do it? Or should I wait until we're going steady? I've never done it before and I don't want to extend that courtesy to him and then have to extend it to every other guy that I like that isn't my boyfriend. Fair is fair.
2006-07-23 22:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, cause after I mentioned being an item before we could do that he said that he was thinking that the whole time but didn't think I was ready, although he didn't ask. He was probably lying. Then, when i asked why he wanted to be with me, he made the statement that since I was a virgin he could have fun with me and do stuff with me that he wouldn't mind doing since he knew that I wasn't a hoe. Is he trying to run game? I think he is but I'd rather get mutiple opinions rather than being one-sided.
2006-07-23 23:00:33 · update #1
First of all if you haven't done it and your not ready then don't do it. Also, many guys want easy sexual gratification and if he isn't willing to commit why satisfy his needs? Also, are you seriously into him and is he seriously into you? If so, then he would never pressure you to do anything you are not ready to do, even if he makes the suggestion.
I recommend that if your not ready for that, you tell him you are not ready....and if he cares about you enough then he will understand and if not, be happy that you found out sooner than later...guys who don't take no for an answer tend not to be the nice kind of guys....regardless of how suave.
Furthermore, I recommend that you keep in mind that once this stuff starts happening then sex is just around the corner even if you aren't ready...and so my suggestion is to make sure that the first person you do anything like this be with a guy who you consider to be very special and someone who is understanding enough to know that if you say stop or no, he will understand and respect your wishes. Finally, practice safe sex...and other sexual activities...because STD's can be passed in anyway when bodily fluids come into contact.
2006-07-24 00:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait till your in a realtionship. It is personnal down there & should only be touched by you or your BF not guy friend. He is testing you & all he wants from you is sex so find another guy to be with.
2006-07-24 05:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋