your wife and she are getting closer and becoming friends like?
Specially when you had done everything with ex. What are the possiblities your ex would not divulge old things. And what if she does (even thogh if she is married).
2006-07-23 22:43:33 · 17 answers · asked by GS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Also add that if you have been comitted to your wife since marriage and no hanky-panky since then.
2006-07-23 22:53:53 · update #1
well thats a confusing situation
2006-07-23 22:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, and a very uncomfortable situation. You need to make sure the communication between you and your wife is very open. If the ex says something about you - good, bad, or otherwise - your wife should tell you so you can explain it to her, or admit that it is the truth. If the ex is happy and you and she have a good relationship, I don't think she's going to say anything horrible about you. If she still wanted you and she is not happily married...that is a recipe for disaster, or it can be. Tell your wife about your uneasiness. You're talking to your wife about feelings regarding her new friend; most women are very receptive to that when a man opens up to them. Don't shut your wife out, and don't let her shut you out. Be polite but distant with the ex, or rather, appropriate. I don't know if you are friends or on good terms with the ex or her husband, but try being congenial to both of them. Make your marriage strong, and nothing should be able to get in the way. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-24 05:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid all contact with your ex and if your wife raises the issue just tell her that you married her, not your ex and that you love her. If you ex still has feelings, she could be trouble, but she could also make enhance your stature with your wife. Try to avoid being together with them. Of course, in a small town, these things happen all the time and people get through them.
2006-07-24 05:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by hellbent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HaHA
Sucks to be you.
Get her prepared for the worst. Make up something horrible and let her think that over. then when the ex says whatever itll be no big deal. If the chick married you she better be ready for the dirt or shes not too bright.
PPL have historys lady. Tell the hubby what you did at the bachellorette party.
2006-07-24 05:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to keep your wife away. I had a problem with my ex a while back that my fiance did not like and I had to end up moving because it got so bad. You need to do something right a way.
2006-07-24 06:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically your screwed!!
Ex's and wives as friends will never work no matter how safe your wife feels and wether or not the ex has moved on there will always be the i had him first, i have him now, thing in the back of their minds and if they truley become friends then theyre gona talk no matter what..
best bet anything youve got to spill do it now cause otherwise there could be trouble when your mrs hears it and wants to know why YOU didnt tell her that...
2006-07-24 05:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what it is that you have not told your wife (and probably should have). You should be honest with your wife, and tell her that you are uncomfortable with this relationship (and why), and you should tell her whatever it is you are hiding from her. Do not defend yourself if you know that what you did was wrong. If your wife loves you, she may be hurt, but in the long run you will gain her trust, and will deserve that trust.
2006-07-24 07:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Alexander Khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats too worry about....I'm friends with my ex husbands new lady, we get on really well, although ex gets quite insecure sometimes and thinks all we do is talk about him....believe me there are more important things in this world.I wouldn't even think about telling her our sexual secrets nor would she.
2006-07-24 06:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they keep talking and hanging out, you are in trouble my friend. There is nothinig that they would need to talk about. Someone or both of them have some real issues with self-esteem. Normal peole don't do this, so someone is ABNORMAL.
2006-07-24 06:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you tell your wife that she is your ex. Then your wife would not go round as much
2006-07-24 06:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's turned on by this little secret between the 2 of you, which she can hold inside for only so long...
2006-07-24 05:48:44 · answer #11 · answered by autie_808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋