2006-07-23 22:30:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about whats bothering you?
2006-07-23 22:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Love Him?
But You Are Not Happy Being With Him?
Then Ask Yourself Bout This
We Can't Really Help You
This Is A Matter Of Your Own Feeling Towards Him
So Think Carefully..
Why Are'nt You Happy?
Take Care
And
Good Luck
2006-07-24 05:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Singapore_Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all find out why you are not happy or you were ever whenever you were with him?
In case you were not happy all along, then it is not LOVE, but you are compromising yourself.
However, if it has anything to do other than that i.e. he made some mistakes or you are feeling guilty for something, I suggest that communication and time can help you to resolve this problem.
2006-07-24 05:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little short. Does he love you back? Is he the reason you are not happy, or is it you, or is it in the circumstances?
If the first case, if he is the reason... everybody deserves to be happy, if you think he cannot make you so, find the person who will.
If the second... search within yourself for the reason why you are not content, and mold yourself to fit what you love... by loving yourself and accepting yourself, you can change.
If the latter, i.e., circumstances, that is hard... but if you fight things together, your boyfriend and you can overcome troubles. Eventually.
2006-07-24 05:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. All you need to do is talk to him. I always expected to be swept off my feet by this big romantic hansom man but after the first week or so all the romantic stuff stops. You have to try and not expect as much from men as they're all the same. They don't think the small things mean as much as they do
2006-07-24 05:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, you love him but you're not 'satisfied' with him?
What are your expectations from him? What do you want him to do to make you happy?
Think about it and talk to him about it.
If he's too ignorant to bother about your feelings, leave him. You deserve someone who can satisfy your feelings and make you happier you a happier person. I think a relationship is about two people giving each other happiness. (it takes two hands to clap)
2006-07-24 05:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez, you make it sound like this is all the difficult.
Talk to the guy. HONESTLY. Stop thinking about what he's thinking. You aren't a telepath, and neither is he, so friggin' talk to the guy.
You may still not be happy with him afterward, but he will know you aren't happy, and you guys can figure out what to do TOGETHER.
2006-07-24 05:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by arcayne_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on now while you can. Whats the point in love if it don't make you fly?
It'll be hard but if your not happy and you have no ties to him, do it while you can.
Good Luck
D*
2006-07-24 06:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love somebody and not be happy.. I think you wouldn't be happy either way. YOu need love in your heart that can only come from God. Seek him
2006-07-24 05:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really specify how oyu arent happy with him. i cant really help you until i know a little more. but my only suggestion for know is to find something you both like and do more of it together. dont cheat on him thouhg unless. it hurts a lot less if you break up with him to be with other people than if you cheat on him because your "unsatisfied". if you really love him try to work something out instead of doing something. if you love him you wont stop trying until you figure out what works. and maybe you'll discover you dont really love him like you thought you did.
2006-07-24 05:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by oxenofterror 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either work out what is making you unhappy in the relationship or leave. I would try working at it first though....relationships are a lot of work and it wouldnt be worth it at the end of the day if you didnt have to work for eachothers affection.
2006-07-24 05:32:55 · answer #11 · answered by Amynesiac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋