2006-07-23 22:25:59 · 40 answers · asked by swept away 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Judging from your previous questions, i am guessing that you know they do not. Women usually do that. Men usually take longer, to make sure the sexual compatability is there. for good or ill, it is a part of many men. It sucks for women, because they are hard-wired to start having feelings for men after having sex (esp. good sex, which women know is hard enough to find - lol).
My advice would be to wait on the sex thing until the guy shows he is there for you, and not the Horizontal Mambo. The guy who vanishes like a fart inthe wind will tell you that he was more interested in the sex. A guy who sticks around sees you, and not just the sex.
However - and this is abso-freaking-lutely critical: do not tease the guy, or tempt him to make yourself feel sexy, or lead him on. That makes you the stereotypical woman that ruins it for all women, by turning them all into game-players. Men don't avoid women like that, but they know it is just a game to the woman, and they will play until they get what they want.
2006-07-23 22:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by arcayne_1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on who the guy is having sex. If its a fling, then most likely u won't have any feelings for the person cause all u crave is sex and any gorgeous women can take her place. But if the women u are having sex for the first time with is say your girl friend or newly wed wife, there will def be some sort of emotional attachment.
2006-07-23 22:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Creator82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, women too. To have sex without emotional attachment is unnatural, to say the least. Sex really is a bonding and is intended to be an act of marriage. Though many many try to be care free and animalistic, sex is a spiritual thing." Animals were made with an instinct for sex. Man was created with a mind to control sex!"
2006-07-23 22:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by oneyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the man. Some men become nasty after the first time with lots of women. Some men will just do it with the same one over and over again. So it is quite possible that you more than likely cannot manipulate a man that way.
2006-07-23 22:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have sex just for their pleasure. Never mind who ever the girl is. So they dont get emotionally attached very easily. Unless they truely love the girl.
2006-07-23 22:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if it wasn't love before it won't be after no matter what scientists say that sex develops bonds between the partners its not true not these days(though a guy may become used to have sex with 1 specific gal and thus keep her as an backup,terrible really).
2006-07-23 22:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily. some men dont become involved and are just there for sex. if the men are MATURE men, they wouldnt have sex with someone they didnt really love and therefore if they really loved them they would be emotionally attached to them already.
2006-07-23 22:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by hearts for tears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. We never get attached because of sex. We leave that up to the woman.
2006-07-23 22:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by greenmonster9269 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is true the first body that gave u the fell of pleasure and the power of sex is the most likely to be loved if that man is sensible and a controled man.
2006-07-23 22:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by dust_bacteria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of men just have sex for the sake of having sex
2006-07-23 22:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by theblackwitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋