This is the case...
One boy and girl r loving for 4 years. There is no prob in religion and caste. The boy has good respoect in the girl's house. He is like a family friend. Both r having good respect in their family. This girl is the last children of her family. The boy is the first boy in their family, has younger sister. The family depends him. The girl asked him to ask their parents for marriage. Both r 25. At that time the boy was not in a good job. He said, after getting a good job only he can think about his marriage. And he promised that she is only his life patner, and he will never think of others. After some days, the girl's parents started their work on her marriage. Now, they have one groom for her. She also tried to refuse this... But she got convinced by their parents' tears. Now she is saying, she can't do anything against their parents and she will accept the person selected by their parents. But she wants this boy, and the boy can't live without her. Your suggn pls..
2006-07-23 22:19:11 · 3 answers · asked by My_Answers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Now they fixed encagement date... only one month to go.. that work is going fast.. both of them can't against parents, they want to live with their parents' blessings... they are not ready to run.. they can't accept their parents standing in shy before the society...
That boy and girl are don't know what to do.. they are in confusion... they need your suggestion.. pls help them...
2006-07-23 22:27:02 · update #1
hi FrAnK!!!!!
iz dis story based on u????c i think de gurl n boy must frankly say 2 their parents dat they luv each other n cant marry any other person....n if de parents force dem 2 marry wid sum1 else den dis iz cheatin wid dat innocent guy....n dat de parents r goin 2 destroy 3 ppl's life.......in de startin dey will get angry....they might not even c ur face.....but in de end i know they will agree 2 ur marriage....n 1 more thing i would like 2 say...i know dis story iz based on U.....i think i m right n dis iz de way i think....
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2006-07-24 01:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by $@LLu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest them to be honest to their parents..
who they really love and who they want to spend their lifetime with....
its not the matter of putting her parents down or wat..
its ur life..!
come on..! how do u want to spend ur lifetime with someone u dont like..
then u will end up divorcing...
and that will bring more trouble to ur parents..!
the onlee thing to do now is sit down, and talk..!
DO REALLY talk..!!!
ur parents love u...
they will understand u...
tell them that u wan to spend ur lifetime with the one u love..
and not someone ur parents like..!
hello..! its ur life.. u have the right to choose the path..!!
come on.. wake up!!!!
ps : when u talk to ur parents... make them feel that u are responsible enough for ur own deed... show them that u r grown up
2006-07-24 06:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Miracle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes read some articles on this site it will help you
2006-07-24 05:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋