2006-07-23 22:18:57 · 31 answers · asked by Paula M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all can be. don`t listen to anyone. go if u want.
2006-07-23 22:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by MissRussia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're not going to go to jail for it, but I *think* that you're asking this question because you feel that there's something wrong with it. I also think that if I were you, I'd try to identify what it really is that attracts you to this young man. I'd also be careful because I'm afraid you'll get your heart broken with a lad this age. He may want entirely different things than you do at his age. You could fall in love with him and want marriage and the baby carriage (or other things) and he may be nowhere near ready for that. Maybe I'm assuming here, you did only ask if it's OK to go out with him ...not have a relationship, so I'll have to say that it's fine to go out with a 19 year old, if it's just to have fun :) Hope you have a good time and 'buyer beware' :) Enjoy!
2006-07-24 05:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Answers to Nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on who you are asking this Q.
When you are 95, he will be 81, and not many people would bother counting.
There will always be a type of person who has a problem when other people dont fit the square.
If you find that wherever you seem to be, the people are of that type, the answer is No. Not OK
If the people are happy and live and let live where you come from, the vote will be majority OK
2006-07-24 08:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you are asking means you are having doubts, or you are getting heat for it.
Ask youself if you would be cool with a 33 year old man dating a 19 year old girl. If you have problem with that, thenyou should have a problem with the other.
that being said, if you are notin this situation, your best answer is to stay out of it. Let the couple find their own common ground. they may work out, and they may not. If it is not you, then you shouldn't be involved.
2006-07-24 05:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by arcayne_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't catch a case behind it unless he's under the care of a facility for those who are not capable of living on their own. Now if you are looking for a serious relationship I would rethink that because he's 19, but just to get your freak on I say go for it, but it sounds like you want to take him to family/friend gatherings don't you? You are worried about what folks will think so I would not advise you to take him anywhere but to a motel because if it's good to him and it's just for now he will be at your door trippin so don't let him know where you live and do the dam thang y'all grown.
2006-07-24 05:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 19 I dated a 36 year old woman! Best sex I ever had, and she taught me most of what I know now.... Now I'm 34 dating a 22, go figure.... Good Times!
2006-07-24 05:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK, but I don't see how you'd have much in common (besides sex) if you were going to try to have a relationship. I had a very hot fling with a 19-year-old myself recently (I'm 36) and it was a helluva lot of fun!
2006-07-24 05:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mizbehavin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, but don't hope for much. The guy has so many lifetimes to go through yet. Think of all the growing and changing that is going to occur.
You sound like Maggy Mae from the Rod Stewart song.
2006-07-24 05:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its okey. cause when you think about it a guy reaches his sexual peak at 18 and im sure hes still in it, and a woman reaches her sexual peak at 35. and sex is sometimes an important key in relationships when you think about it.
so, yes i think its totally 100% ok for a 33 yr old woman to date a 19 year old guy
2006-07-24 05:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by kari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its legal but i think his family will not like it.if u do keep it on the down-low,don't tell n-e-1.And don't fall in <3 b/c 19 y m r very imature!!I guess just have him as a friend with benefits(LOL).I'm sure he won't mind.So yeah just have fun with him,don't take it too seriously,if u know what i mean.And def. don't tell ur kids(if u have any!)they probably won't understand.
2006-07-24 05:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is legal and the last I heard you both have are guaranteed the right to do what you want according to the constitution.
2006-07-24 05:25:41 · answer #11 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋