Every time we fight, I end up getting pissed off because it's over something I did. But she doesn't know how much crap she does that pisses me off and I just let it go. I don't see any sense in fighting over small stuff. Like yesterday, she wanted diet pills and I bought them for her, but I said she can't be eating pizza while she's taking them if she wants them to work. And she's really mad at me. Like to the point of breaking up with me I think. But she doesn't understand how much I just let slide. I think she over reacts.
2006-07-23 21:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by Snidley Whiplash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think she realizes what a great boyfriend she has. I think she forgot what a wonderful guy she met months/years ago and chose to go out with. Tell her that you have doubts in this relationship and that you might consider leaving her. Then she'll wake up or snap out of it and realize what she might lose. On the other hand, maybe something in her life is bothering her and is causing her to be in a foul mood. Maybe she's taking her anger for something that you don't know about, out on you. Like the pizza/diet pill incident. Maybe her being overweight has really been bothering and frustrating her lately. Tell her that you like her just the way she is and that she doesn't need to lose weight and all that sweet stuff. Talk to her, communicate with her. Tell her all the things you said in your question. Tell her that since you tolerate with her tantrums, she should let the little things that you do and say, slide.
If the problem persists and continues, I would definitely consider leaving her because you're too good to put up with that. Life is too short. I would stop wasting my life with a person like this. You deserve someone who will treat you the same way you treat them.
2006-07-23 22:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by pureessence 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Wow! I feel for you. The problem is not so much the fights...because every couple has their disagreements and as long as you can work things out afterward and achieve compromise, that does not matter. But the fact is you cannot "sound off" to her about the things you need her to listen to. AND THAT IS A problem. She has got to listen, no matter how much it makes her mad, no matter how much she dislikes what she thinks you migh say. You, on the other hand, have to learn to be more tacful. You sound like you REALLY love her. I mean what man would tell his girlfriend about her unhealthy dieting habits and risk her wrath and embarrassment if he did not? But you have to learn to CHOOSE your battles. So that being said, you need to learn to hug her when you are mad (yes affection can help), and be extremely tactful (because if you cannot then don't speak) and make a deal with her that if you listen to her, she, in turn, must listen to you. PISSED OR NOT! and if she says "NO DEAL" then find out why? and LISTEN! watch her facial expressions, body language, oh and 1 last thing...don't mess with a woman's "pizza" or diet or weight during PMS/or that time of the MONTH...it's a losing battle and it's not a smart move for a man.
2006-07-24 04:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you are not compatible or soul mates. you need to break up and go your separate ways and do not remain friends. I am a lady and I would not take that crap from a man so why should you take it from a women. move on find someone who makes you happy. you can not change a person. they are who they are. maybe she grew up in a home in which her parents fought all the time. move on get rid of her and you can do better. if she tried calling do not take her calls. just ignore her.
2006-07-24 04:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u 2 keep fighting then dump her she got some issues she needs to work out
2006-07-24 04:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by ashley m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls can be really nasty, some can be really understanding..im not blaming your gf here, maybe she just expects a lot from you and expects you to know everything. maybe she needa to get a hold of herself before lashing out i think
2006-07-24 04:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You girl is really gone.. one queastion,, is she a gemini,,,, hahahha .. bear with her maybe she will change if not she is really crap,,,even I could control mymoods better then that...
2006-07-24 04:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thinks this kind of things happen to all guys , just grow a thick skin and you will be all right , it happens to me all the time !! i just say Oh .... and forget it
2006-07-24 04:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by choo_6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she is OA.
2006-07-24 05:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋