What does that mean ?Should I leave him alone ?Should I not call him anymore ?is it time to go on with my life?
2006-07-23 21:00:54 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes leavei him alone hes over you
2006-07-23 21:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Treezle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys react to situations differently than girls do. If you broke up with him to snap him into shape--it might not have been the best idea. Not all guys will come crawling back to you apologizing...none with dignity. If you were just trying to give him a reality check, wait a couple days before calling him to give you two some time to think things out and then call him. Tell him the reason for your hasty reaction and then discuss the reason for the breakup. Otherwise, stick to your guns! If he deserved you breaking up with him, don't get weak because he doesn't want you back. You probably dont wanna hear it but you really do deserve better if he's a jerk. Besides, you get the last laugh this way and you don't risk looking weak by crawling back to him. Good luck girl and be strong! GRR!
2006-07-23 21:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by chels21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, break ups are SO hard. I firstly want to say sorry that you are going through this. I know how confusing it can be...from the sounds of things you broke it off with him, but its understandable that you are still wanting to call him etc, a ) cos maybe you think you made a mistake. If this is the case, GIVE IT TIME! remember there is a REASON you broke up with him and keep reminding yourself of those reasons and DO NOT GET BACK TOGETHER WITH HIM too soon, give both of you time to decide if this is what you want, but give it time and give him space and then decide. b) if you're contacting him cos you want to be friends after this break up, well sweetie its just too soon. give it time again, and then after you've each had space and time you can decide if you WANT to be friends with him and if you will be able to. remember you may want that but it might be too hard for him, so you will have to repect that. all the best!
2006-07-23 21:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you broke up with him, that means you are tired of him,
BUT if he does not call you back after the break up to get back with you HE wanted you to break up with him. he probably found someone else, and that is why he is not calling you back.
just remember there are other fish in the sea.
you were looking for a boyfriend when you found him, you can find another. it may take a while because you sound like you still have feelings for the ex, but move on and get the hook wet.
good luck
2006-07-23 21:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by sister cool breeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that ye broke up - end of story!!!
People break up for a reason hun - normally because they've reached a point in the relationship where one or both parties are no longer happy in the situation and its best to move in!
Your boyfriend may not be calling you because hes upset and needs time to get over it - or simply because he knows you've broken up for the best and whats the point in beating around the bush and calling you - he might be worried that you'll interpret this as him wanting to get back with you or something.
It sounds to me like YOU didnt want the relationship to end, so in my opinion its up to you to call him and see what his take on things are.
If he doesnt answer your calls then yes I think its time to move on with your life.
2006-07-23 21:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see you broke up with him and he's not begging you to keep him and your bothered by it, come on girl what kind of games are you trying to play, now you made the choice for a reason, let it go and be civil about it, If you feel you made a mistake than you call him and explain yourself and if its not meant to be than let it go theres still life to live and alot more to learn as you go thru it
2006-07-23 21:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by dugbug63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably it means that he needs sometime to like his wounds, or he does give a ****. Yes leave him alone,no do not call him anymore, yes go on with your life, there are plenty of guys out there, just move on!
2006-07-23 21:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by R R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry that its over between u guys but on your question it does say u broke up with him whats the problemo and if u did then there must of been a problem but move on with your life find some one else now listen theres other men out there also okay now move on with your life it will be the best for u
2006-07-23 21:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by wwe fan#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with him, why would you want to call him anymore? If you still like this guy than call him, but don't toy him on by calling him if you don't plan on getting back together.
2006-07-23 21:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with him...you can expect him to not want anything more to do with you. that would be the normal response.
The abnormal would be stalking you, begging to come back, telling you he can't live, troubling you at work.
That he doesn't call you means he accepts that it's over.
Yes, you should leave him alone now that you've broken up with him.
No, you should not call...you broke up...it's over...officially.
And yes, it's time to move on.
2006-07-23 21:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont call him and give yourselves some time. Go out and have fun and meet more people. Then give him a call when you are completely "over" him just to check how hes doing if you want.
2006-07-23 21:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋