Have you ever asked out a guy who you just saw in public or something and were *really* attracted to? You know... just walk up to a stranger like guys walk up to us? If so, how? And were you nervous...
I'm sooo shy, but I wanna try this!
2006-07-23 20:58:05 · 4 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've walked up to guys i've never known and started a conversation.. its not all that bad but i think its a pretty stupid idea to ask a guy out when you dont even know his name
2006-07-23 21:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok babes - first off all you need to be REALLY careful - there are waaaayyy to many weirdos out there in this day and age - and you just need to put any physical attraction behind you and think safety first!!!!
however if you REALLY really fancy a stranger you clamp eyes on - I wouldnt exactly just walk up and "ask him out". You dont want to appear desperate!!! However you only get one life so I would advise you to maybe be subtle about it - approach him and maybe ask him the time, or does he know somewhere nice to eat around the place? Hopefully he might offer to actually SHOW you where a nice place is if he fancies you back!
If he doesnt take the hint though, maybe slip him your cell number on a piece of paper - dont be brazen about it - just say you look like a nice guy, maybe give me a call some time and walk away - that way you've slipped the bother of doing all the chasing to HIM!!!!
Best of luck!
2006-07-24 04:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I have felt this way several times. Its when your eyes meet in a crowd... Speaking for myself we feel the same nervousness and more often than not chicken out.
If that sepcial buzz is felt though, go for it... I did it twice, ended up with a girlfriend the once, and friends with the other and her husband... strange world
So try it
2006-07-24 04:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what atrracts guys to a chic. Confidence!!! Don't studder..look him directly in the eyes, say "hi" with a sexy smile...and they're yours. NEVER be nervous? For what? How many men say no??????
2006-07-24 04:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by theonlyjasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋