she was my best friends girl but me and him had a big fight and she started talking to me and the next thing i knew we were kissing and know we talk like were going out but its not official, and my friend dont know and were are friends again but i like spending time with her more than him (not to sound gay) and on top of that me and the girl work together this sucks
2006-07-23 20:48:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out, just be prepared to lose a friend
2006-07-23 20:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell your girl that you have work things out with her boy friends? You should and make her aware of this. This is a very small world and you will bum into him one day with your arm around this girl. And another big fight.
As her how she feel toward you and him. Her answer will give you an idea of your standing.
If both of you are made for each other, don't hid this for your male friends. It's better to have friends than enemy.
2006-07-24 03:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by davidtay25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys have this rule. if i claim her, hands off. but since it's a past relationship for him you should tell him and ask for the ok before you get together and surprise your best bud. he is your best friend for a reason. he may get mad, he may not get over it but in the end it is your decision to make and i'm sure your friend will appreciate the heads up even if he doesn't like the idea. if he's your friend and you do get with the girl he'll get over it and be happy that you found something he didn't. that's what best friends are about.
2006-07-24 03:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by makoberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself is it worth to loose a very good friend, over a girl. i dont thinks so, your best friend is by far more valuable, and keep in mind it is his girl! Later on you might find yourself a better girl, there are plenty of fishes out in the sea, however the good lord knows you can meet more girls but never a good friend like this.
Maybe once he breaks up with her, give it ago however dont jump on her too quickly as he might get suspicious! Good luck!!
2006-07-24 03:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Scarlett H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth possibly losing your best friend forever over a relationship that might last only weeks.
There are plenty of girls out there, man. Don't exacerbate things with you and your friend.
I'd work on getting your friend back if I were you. If his friendship means anything to you, I wouldn't even be messing with thinking about his girl.
2006-07-24 03:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all . if u love spending time with the girl why say her out man. but be aware about friendship and love. don,t say anythjing to any one ur friend and the girl are 2 different identities so never disclose anyones secret 2 other.be happy and play safe
2006-07-24 03:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by neel s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I know it sounds like a tough situation. So is she still going with your friend? If she's not then I'd say that you should ask her out. It is tough sometimes dating people you work with though depending on how you feel about that. If you really have feelings for her though you should go for it otherwise you'll live to regret it. Trust me I know from experience.
2006-07-24 03:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by cornbreadman2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship between her and your friend is over dude go for it. I belive the feeeling is mutual but make sure that she is dating you on the rebound. Feel it out before you commit to something Good luck
2006-07-24 04:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by samydan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh Dating a co-worker is usually never good. you should talk with your friend ask him if he would mind if you asked her out. i meaqn you 2 are friends again right?? if you really are a friend then make sure to ask him first. he probably wont care and then you two can go out.
2006-07-24 03:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u gotta find out if they r messing wit ur head.
then check if she was just havin fun...a one time fling...u shdnt get all sentimental before finding wot's actually goin on-is the guy important or the girl?
2006-07-24 03:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should cuz i mean u 2 were in a fyt wen u n that girl got 2getha so yeah thats fyn
2006-07-24 03:51:36 · answer #11 · answered by ~*.::. sAy--wAatT.:.*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋