She is a great girl, the type whom i feel i have been looking for, Basically i am willing to go thru the difficult times with her...Sadly i don't know how to tell if she is really interested and that i stand a chance at all....Ladies and gentleman out there..do share your opinions, i know it might be subjective but i need some kind of assurance. Thanks....
2006-07-23 20:34:36 · 9 answers · asked by Peanutpie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on and give her time. You don't want to start a new relationship while a old one is still in the process of ending. Show her how someone that really cares about someone would treat that person.If it's meant 2 be, she will see through the pain she's going through now and see you.
2006-07-23 20:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Day Lover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think this is not the right time for you to tell her you like her as she is still in the process of recovering. Give her some time for her to be settled. Do lend her a listening ear if she want to confide to someone. If you really care for her do consider how she feels at this moment. Show her that you care and concerned for her. I think one of these days she may be able to accept you and start a relationship with you. But do bear in mind that she may have phobia in this relationship due to the bad experience with her ex bf. So you have to be more understanding in this aspect.
2006-07-24 01:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right time is now,find opportunities to ask her out in a group outing, that way it is less threatening as she's dosen't wants to get into a relationship yet but this will brightened her up ASAP
in order to be receptive to the advances that you will be makng.
You would probably want to thank me by naming your first son after me if she does becomes the mother of your child for dispensing such an important advice!
2006-07-24 06:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by lucas l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are good friends, and I have no idea how close you two are, then you do not need to make a move. You do not want to rush her and be the rebound man. So just be nice and all and then see how she feels later. She may still be hurt by this guy and love him maybe and you do not want to confuse her or disrespect yourself. So wait awhile before telling her you like her as more than a friend.
2006-07-23 20:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, be a good friend. she doesnt need a new relationship immediately. let her get over the past completely.
in the meanwhile, be the best friend. be the man that she can go to if she has a problem. learn how to be good with humor, if you can get her to laugh every time she's with you, this will not only help her feel better, but help you reap rewards in the future.
Bottomline, Be the Man! but do not court her. i know its ironic, but it will work, both in helping her get over the past, and paving the way for your future with her.
2006-07-24 00:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Manix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend and do not try to help her get over him. Don't get too close to the situation, the first guy after a breakup is never the right one. Bide your time and stay friendly...do not start a relationship at this time.
2006-07-23 20:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her finish her process from her bad relationship then go and bring for her chocolates and flowers and ask her out!! (maybe there's no need for the flowers and chocolate).
2006-07-23 20:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give her some time help her out but don't date her right away it might make her sad
2006-07-23 20:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a friend....
i think y0u sh0uld c0mf0rt her first....
that's what are friends f0r.... right?????
2006-07-23 20:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by nikkaniks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋