I was a virgin when I went out with my boyfriend. I broke up with him on the forth of July, and still was a virgin. Later I met a man who was everything I wanted my boyfriend to have...and I had sex with him. Is it wrong? or do I need to keep getting to know this man?
2006-07-23 20:33:26 · 13 answers · asked by You're giving it all away! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that's a toughie. i don't think it is wrong to sleep with someone you don't love but make sure you don't fall for him. if you love him or if you do find feelings erupt in you for him go on...
2006-07-23 20:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this need an explaination ? I dont think so.
It all depends on your value system and your mind. If your idea of having sex with man was just for fun and since you enjoyed, it is good. But morally, IT IS TERRIBLE, just to sleep with a man for sex. If you keep doing this, you must be knowing what people will call u later.
Have a life.
Cheers
2006-07-24 03:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by deebeein 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is wrong to sleep with someone, but it seems that you slept with this guy because he had components to either his body or personality (or both) that your ex did not have. You were sorta using this guy, and I think you know it, too.
Would you feel used if a guy did that to you?
That being said, I think that life is full of regrets. A good way to a good life is to always - ALWAYS - choose to say yes, rather than no. The only caveat to this is to not do something that is obviously stupid, going to unfairly hurt someone else, or cause someone pain. My pleasure is not worth someone else's pain, and neitehr should yours.
Should you take that weekend trip out of the city? Yes. Should you kiss the guy (or girl) that you want to kiss? Yes. Should you follow your bliss? Abso-freaking-lutely yes!
2006-07-24 04:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by arcayne_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe now, its not wrong. But you should be prepared that one day, that "thing" happened could be a reason for you to have a complicated relationship. Coz what you have said you just recently know this guy, and maybe you don't know much about him yet. My dear i suggest you to be prepare of the consequences of what had happened. Hope this will help.
2006-07-24 03:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about what you want and what is best for you. I have no clue about this man. If he treats you well and you do not have a bad feeling about him, then maybe you should get to know him better.
2006-07-24 03:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Bottom Line.
2006-07-24 03:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong.
If you feel right with him and think he's worth getting to know [based on his personality not the sex] then get to know him but if not ...then it was just a one night stand...happens to the best of us.=]
2006-07-24 03:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your life and having sexual intercourse is something at your own discretion.But having sex with someone you love feels better than a fling.On my opinion it is wrong cause if u sleep with people you dont love you might be taking advantage of.
2006-07-24 04:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by JJON-DA-DON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your dream man but not a love one...You shouldn't gave him your virginity but it's too late because you've lost it already.You have to consider your feelings first before you do that next time...
2006-07-24 03:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by ress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your life- your decision if it's right or wrong
When a baby pops out and he leaves you a single mom just be prepared for the consequences
2006-07-24 03:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋