you think im male bashing. its true men are perverts and im beging to hate you for what what you stand for. which is nothing but what is in between your legs. who gives a **** about your *****. only you care about that. so if you dont want a real relationship and you dont want to act like a real man then go and get a damn prostitute. and stop wasting women who want a real man time. geez you perverted men make me sick. no offense to the few real men left on this god forsaken earth.
2006-07-23 20:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are good men, but you seem to be blaming the entire gender for YOUR bad choices. There are scummy guys, and some of them have responded here. there are also nice guys, but for some reason you never seem to be finding them.
This tells me something bery basic about you: you make very, very bad choices in who you date. Guys who are nice are transparent (which is supposed to be a good thing), but you likely like the danger and the whole 'tall, dark and handsome' thing.
News flash: some of the nicest guys on the planet - and by nice I mean guys who won't be checking out women or thinking with their ***** or cheating on you or forgetting important dates or forgetting to ask about things that you feel are important - are all guys that you have probably not even looked at because they were either losing their hair (or had hair in the wrong places), didn't have a phat car or wallet. or had body issues.
I don't mean to make this sound like I am ganging up on you; I really am not. A lot of women make these same mistakes. they see the magazine and tv ads of these guys that are almost certainly airbrushed, gay or disinterested, and measure the rest of the male population by that, instead of on their own merits.
A lot of guys do this as well in evaluating women, too. I am suggesting that by allowing yourself to be drawn to (apparently) the same sorts of personality traits, you are setting yourself up for a consistent pattern of misery and heartache.
Make some changes to how you look at guys. Instead of focusing on the guy who seems pretty or who has nice clothes or a spiffy ride, who always turn out to be the losers you talk about, maybe drop your whole standards and re-evaluate the sorts of things you want in a guy, and be honest about it.
From your other questions, you need to focus on the guy who DOESN"T bring up sex right away, and who actually listens to you and shows concern about the things going on in your life. Focus on the guy who remembers the little things on a regular basis, and not just once in a while. Definitely focus on the guy who doesn't try to control you, and who will not let you control him.
A real man is someone who treats people the way he wants to be treated. man or woman. Aim for anything less than that, and you will get less.
2006-07-23 21:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by arcayne_1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All about the naughty bits, right. Of course it's nice for a woman to act like a woman on a man -- reverse cowgirl style.
2016-03-27 04:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none taken. but i agree.
about 80-90% percent of dudes only wanna grab some a**.
they don't care about a girls personality or feelings. only there *****. i'll assume you came out of a bad relationship, or you've been thinking about that for a week and had to get it out. but look for the dude sitting alone or with his family. he's not a dick or a perve.
2006-07-23 20:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Stargazer 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well it is funny most girls say that we men have only one thing on our minds which you so passionately explained. that has to do with the perceived knowledge of women sure you might bash us saying that we are easilu manipulated bla bla bla so we comform to the stereotypes and you again complain. i take it yo are angry at a certain individual but beleive e I know guys who feel equally if not more about women. It is all abput understading your partner and growing to love one another. Stereotyping and generalisaitons will get us no where. And why do we guys dwell a lot on sex it is simple biology we want to procreate we guys cannot subdue our urges ;)
2006-07-23 20:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by samydan 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I was a god man, I used to care about girls. I still remember the days I bought flowers and the nights I loved to watch the moon...
Girls used to call me romantic. And I was it till the day I found the girl I love having sex with my neighbor, I left her I started another relationship... I still remember the night we spend talking on the phone (from 11pm to 7am) but a week later she left me without saying something...
Now that I'm pervert I have 3 girls and none of them is planing to run away, they love the way we have wild sex and want me to treat them as bi*****
Now I don't have to care about suffering, do U still want me to be faithful???!!!
2006-07-23 20:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
I suppose I would take issue with your generalization. It is expected that you would see the inadequacies particularly with men since you are presumably a heterosexual female. I would say that the problem is just as common with women - the problem being a lack of substantial value system. There has been an erosion of late, particularly in the U.S. of values. I believe it is not gender-specific.
2006-07-23 20:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by brian_29_chicago 2 · 0⤊ 7⤋
No offense taken!
2006-07-23 20:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
w-o-w someones trying to get their point across
2006-07-23 20:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by shuddup&&kissme. 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Finally---A woman with the Ta-Tas to tell it like it is!!!!!
2006-07-23 20:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
I think it's genetically imprinted into our system. I'm a guy honey...believe me...all guys are pervs...no matter how nice they seem!!!
2006-07-23 20:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Koala 2 · 4⤊ 5⤋