when ever i get up set with him. i usall hit him and yell at him. but when ever he try's that with me i start crying like a baby. or when ever i hear ppl yelling i start crying.
2006-07-23 20:25:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
nooooooo he dosen't hit me by the way! idk when ever i start crying he kinda backs off and hugs me. i have isuse lol
2006-07-23 20:36:50 · update #1
Break this cycle of abuse. My guess is that you come from a family that yelled and screamed a lot. It is not healthy and you need to get hold of your emotions and find out what is really going on. If you don't get along well with your bf, why stay with him. There is no good reason to.
Get a good counselor and not one from school.
2006-07-23 20:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by up.tobat 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
get out of it now. it will only get worse. What's gonna stop him from hitting you a little too hard next time. And the fact that you hit him is not good either. In a true loving relationship, none of this should be happening. Forget the crying...that's normal. The other is not.
2006-07-24 03:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by mrslangley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound absolutely crazy. Which means you are a normal woman. It is a well known fact women can't control there emotions. When you are angry, you act out your anger by hitting and yelling. When you are scared or afraid or feel bad you cry because it is the instinctual response to that emotion.
2006-07-24 03:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by james_argonaut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you have discovered an ancient memory of when you were a child. It is that memory that stimulates you to cry when you are older.
You can learn about ancient memories by searching for 'Transactional Analysis."
;-D I'm OK! How about you?
I have included one link to TA. There are hundreds you can look at...
2006-07-24 03:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by China Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere along the line crying got you what you wanted. People felt sorry for you. It's like when people pout when they are trying to sell you something and you say no.
2006-07-24 03:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by gregory_dittman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the thing with girls.....crying is the simplest solution to lighten ur heart when u are upset...
2006-07-24 03:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Deep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry iits just what comes naturally theres nothing wrong with it.
2006-07-24 05:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by jemaple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B CUZ U LOVE HIM. OR...
PMS?
2006-07-24 03:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋