i can orgasm other ways... lol but ive never had one during intercourse, or oral. ive only been with one guy, and 1 other (one time). but its just frustrating to me sometimes. like its not really an issue anymore, weve just accepted that it doesnt happen for me...i dunno..
2006-07-23 20:06:44 · 32 answers · asked by Steph is tight like a tiger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like weve tried, and explored, and plus do lots of positions but its jsut doesnt happen!! and i want it!!
and no guys i dont think one night with you will solve everything
2006-07-23 20:11:58 · update #1
Ive been having sex for 6 years, no orgasm for me either , you need to have clitoral stimulation in order to get one, try riding him, work your hips that way your clit gets stimuated. it worked once for me try it you might have better luck than me, or hips lol
2006-07-23 20:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by †♫♫♫♥☼♥♫♫♫† 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It may have something to do with timing and foreplay. Take it slow and prolong your foreplay, Your partner may start it with you while on a walk, just talking sweet nothings or while watching TV or having dinner. You can tell him where it feels good and he can wait for you so you can go on orgasm together at the same time. Just don' t be in a hurry and take your time. You're still young and had not fully lubricated. When you have matured a little , the nerve endings will have aged and will communicate to your senses the pleasures necessary for orgasm.
2006-07-24 05:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by jbernz16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many people have said there are a lot of women who can't orgasm through intercourse alone. It is odd though that you can't through oral as well. One of the things I'm wondering about is when you can orgasm. If he uses his fingers or can you only when you masturbate? If he can't orgasm you through any means then perhaps the problem is you're not sexually attracted to him or he's not doing it good enough. If you can only orgasm with a vibrator you might want to to stop using the vibrator or wean yourself from it. Using a vibrator can desensitize your clit and cause other forms of stimulation to not be enough. Good luck!
2006-07-24 02:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
More than likely there is absolutley nothing wrong with you. Every women is completely different, one fact though, women need clitorial stimulation in order to have an orgasm. There are many different creams and products that help with this. I sell Undercover wear and we sell many products for this problem. I recommend the Liquid Lust. Go to my website www.ucwparty.bravehost.com and check out my great products. Good luck
2006-07-23 20:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women don't orgasm during intercourse. Dr. Drew talked all about it, you might not have one until you fall really in love, and have that deeper connection. It took me 8 years to have during sex. now i have one every time, same guy though, go figure.
2006-07-23 20:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by squish72705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a surprisingly low % of women who actually experience an orgasm during intercourse, so you're not alone! Just be happy that you can orgasm in other ways :p
2006-07-23 20:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by kaloptic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communication. Don't "just accept", talk to each other, get creative, change it up. My last girlfriend was the same way, and she was all too willing just to accept it. When we first started to get sexually active, she made it very clear to me that she couldn't get orgasms. It's not that she couldn't. It was just that she hadn't. It took some time for her to get comfortable communicating, but in the end, she was able to.
2006-07-23 20:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try some other guys and try to be more relaxed, because this stress can also contribute to your problem... anyway, things like this happen, it happended to me too until i learned that i should relax and not have any thoughts except enjoy and feel good
it also helps a lot if you do it with a person you care about and you get to know each other sexually very well
2006-07-23 20:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by KiKi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing...ok, heres what your partner does...nextime he's ganna give u oral, have him tease you a bit, like when hes down there have him kiss the inside of your thighs and like around your...you know...then lick it a bit, then go back to the same routine...do it about 2-3 times, so you anticipate it more...then have him lick it like a mad man...lol...it should feel better and hopefully get you to climax...
2006-07-23 21:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by metalplayer45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i ask someone the same question and they told me that it was normal. the same thing happen to me, i never had one either during intercourse. but a lot of girls i talk to days that don't have orgasm either, so i guess it's normal.
2006-07-23 20:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋