Im just saying if more women took a more realistic approach to dating then maybe their would be less break ups and broken hearts. Now we all know at least 95% of men would cheat if given the PERFECT Opportunity. So what kind of a woman actually believes that their man is so special and different that he wont cheat?
2006-07-23 19:18:37 · 17 answers · asked by Controversy KING 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe my man wont cheat until he proves otherwise, period. I prefer to go into my relationship with a trusting heart.. if it gets broken again and again, oh well..
2006-07-23 19:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you have had a few bad experiences with men. I can see if he is immature or not ready for a serious relationship then he might stray. I think that as a woman you should seek out a mate that respects you and wants to be with you, and ONLY you. I have known men that are actually very happy in their relationships and haven't cheated. It's really about respect to your partner and within yourself. I have been with the same wonderful man for 10 years and I know that we have both had opportunities in the distant past but sometimes you just have to think about what would happen if you took that step and cheated. Ask yourself why are you putting your relationship in jeopardy? Maybe you aren't that serious about the person you are dating. My husband has said that he couldn't and wouldn't jeopardize a relationship that we have worked so hard for and what is so solid. I suppose that some men like the thrill of the chase and knowing that they are still attractive to the opposite sex. Is it really worth that to hurt what you have built with another person? I belive that my husband is special because he treats me with respect and loves me and we are best friends as well. When you find something like that you don't want to ruin it with a 20-minute romp with a stranger. But I can't speak for everyone ;) I had my heart broken in the past because I chose the wrong guys to date. You need to see yourself as a wonderful person with great qualities and alot to offer and to be with someone who is mature enough to commit to one person and be happy with that. That is not being unrealistic either. We get our hearts broken going for the "bad boys" and wanting that excitement. I think that it's more exciting to be with a guy who shows up on time for a date and calls when he says he will, etc.
2006-07-24 02:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by buddhawoman32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the women who actually trust their men. It's a pretty lame answer, I suppose, but it is love that forms a trusting relationship. Love enables each other to devote and commit themselves wholly to a relationship, and it follows that they create a trusting bond. If you still doubt that men are big cheaters, maybe you should check out the guys from webdate_dot_com and wealthymen_dot_com! The guys there are very loyal and know how to respect their women!
2006-07-24 03:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol a very moronic one? All men will cheat if given the chance... However i think most would be surprised at how many women would cheat also it's the way the world is now and to be so naive about it is silly
2006-07-24 02:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men who love and care for their woman. Most don't so, just keep looking until you find the one who wont cheat on you. That might be a LONG search though, lol.
2006-07-24 02:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Xenjn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust. Treat yr man as someone so special that they will have no desire 2 cheat even if opportunity presents itself. Be a wife, gf,hooker,mistress,mother,. HE has everthing he wants from u. Y CHEAT?
2006-07-24 02:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the dumb kind the same as what kind of man actually believes there women WONT cheat...it works both ways
2006-07-24 02:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my man is totally whipped, desperate to keep me, and doesn't really have a life.
However, if we got married and had been together for a while there are exceptions to every rule, depending on if a situation presented itself and he was weak or pissed at me.
2006-07-24 02:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by goatluvver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the kind of girl that believes that my man wouldn't cheat.
I have 100% trust in him - I would not care if he went to a 3 day camp full of nude glamour models, he has my trust and I have his.......it's great
2006-07-24 02:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman that never fails to give his man the best....that's why he had no reason to cheat!
2006-07-24 02:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋