What kind of woman actually believes that their man WONT cheat??

Question

Im just saying if more women took a more realistic approach to dating then maybe their would be less break ups and broken hearts. Now we all know at least 95% of men would cheat if given the PERFECT Opportunity. So what kind of a woman actually believes that their man is so special and different that he wont cheat?

Answer 1

If you are going to cheat you shoudnt be in a commited relationship.
When I say "I love you" I mean it.
I never say "I love y......hey... who's your friend?"

Answer 2

You're giving men a bigger break than I would. I'd say if given the perfect opportunity, more than once 100% of men would cheat.

What kind of woman believes he won't? Those that are in denial.

I have a friend going through a terrible divorce right now because her husband left her and has a baby with someone else. For years all she said was that he believed in God and love to much to cheat. I knew he was cheating, but she just didn't want to believe it.

Look at all the ministers, the President, the rich, the poor, etc. that have cheated. I don't know anyone who is immune to it.

Answer 3

Sheesh, where is that statistic coming from? And what would constitute the *PERFECT* opportunity. I think you're running on assumptions.
... and if you're a woman that's worried about men cheating, then YOU'RE likely the one that picked a cheater, or you gave him the idea.
I found the love of my life just when I was NOT looking for love! I had gotten out of a bad relationship and was taking time out for ME. I was happy with myself, learning who I was, what my strengths were and where I was going. Then, voila! Love landed in my lap and is going 11 years strong.
And YES, I know I am lucky and blessed. I wish the same for everyone else. But you gotta know who you are first and what kind of man you might be picking (cheater or nice guy), 'cos ultimately the cheating factor is up to you. Will you be afraid of being cheated on all your life, or will you rise to the challenge and learn to be loved and love yourself? *steps off soap box*....

Answer 4

There is no woman or man that special. Men cheat and so do women. I have been married for 6+ years. Neither of us have cheated, that I know of, but we are both aware of attractions to others. In other words, we have both come close to that line but we are there to pull the other back and continue our relationship. Sad? Yes! But, we are together, running a profitable business. We have lost other things- a child- my child. But we are taking good care of her. Best wishes.

Answer 5

I think girls can be the same exact way...don't be so quick to judge men because of bad experiences, girl.
Some men make their woman feel secure and loved and she doesn't have to worry about him cheating. I think we as women get hurt and we close up. By doing that we are not giving a new love interest a chance because of what happened in our past. Definately learn and grow from being hurt but don't use that against someone new in your life. It isn't fair to them.

Answer 6

Some couples cheat together, it works for many. My hedonistic resort is full of couples that love each other and cheat together. Not every ones idea of a perfect love, but it works for millions. To answer your question, a woman that has a husband who is also her best friend and a soul mate. A woman that has a husband that has lost at love, because of his cheating.

Answer 7

Not being a paranoid, thinking that they're being cheated always even without any reasons or explanations at all. A woman who is not into dillusional level thinking that they were always being hurt by every guy. A woman who can trust and be trusted. A woman like someone from webdate*dot*com. A woman can let her man go freely without any doubts and fear.

Answer 8

I do.. u know why, because i didnt marry a lil boy in a man's body, i married a real man that believes in his vows to me.. my husband realizes that it only destroys a marriage to look at other women, to look at porn, mens mags, ect.. he knows we have 3 boys that we are raising into men and that he has to be the role model for them.. Your damn right my man is special.. because id put him in any situation with any girl and id bank on my man to always do what is right, cause thats the type of man he is.. Ive been with alot of losers in my time, womanizers and such..even married one the first time around that did cheat, so this time around i was very picky about who i married, and I made the right choice.. most women are in Aw when they find out how my husband treats me, im a very lucky lady to have found a "REAL " man and not a lil boy trapped in a mans body..

Answer 9

Depends really....if he's a play boy...then from the beginning you know that this is the man you're marrying................& just hope that in time he'll change . Some do but others remain........

A man with dignity who are looking for good company for a life time might not cheat...a family man BUT again with friends influence they might rotate......The best thing have a good communication with your man , talk, share & trust each other...........

Don't tie you're man down & let him be with his friends...sometimes be there with him & at least you'll get to know his friends too & in the other way also..........

Answer 10

There is no guarantee in life that someone won't cheat regardless of whether they are a man or a woman...married or not.. regardless of how special, perfect or different they think their loved one is.

When asked if one's spouse or significant other has ever cheated...one should always reply:

"As far as I KNOW, he/she has never cheated on me."

And in the event someone has been asked by their significant other or spouse whether they have ever cheated on them, the reply should be;

"I've always been as faithful to you,
as you have been to me."

I have found that both of the replies work extremely well, especially the second one.

;-)

Answer 11

When you say perfect opportunity you mean the type where your 1000 miles from home and she's already naked? Man it sucks that some of us stilled wouldn't do it because after and hour of pleasure we would live with a lifetime of guilt. As for the type of woman I would have to say one who lives in denial.