i have a friend who was always playing around with her boyfriend and he would always get mad because he was a very jelous person or what ever he basically didn't want her talking to other boys or what ever beacuse her was scared that someone come and break them up or what ever. so one day my friend told her boyfriend that she was walking with some other boy and he got mad or that ever. he told her if her was to see her he was gonna beat her and he broke up with her and hung up the phone. she called me for advice but i don't know what to do can anybody help me out
2006-07-23 19:15:15 · 6 answers · asked by ghettobabii_05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your friend is not serious enough with her present relationship. She knows it that her BF doesn't want her to be talking or spending so much time with other guys but there she goes doing the same thing over and over.
I believe, even if you love someone don't ever dare yourself to play with temptation because we are only humans and prone to make mistakes. This is what her BF is worried about. The guy is just protecting the relationship and there's nothing wrong with that. If he is over jealous well it's your friends fault because she's not pulling a muscle to be worthy of her beau's trust.
As for the threats, I don't think the guy is serious about it. It's just words of complete annoyance. I can't blame him. Your friend deserve some awakening. Ask your friend, if she still wants this relationship she should act the way she is expected to. If she's not happy anymore with this relationship, she should let him go. It's only fair for the both of them to find what they deserve and not to be stuck with this half cooked affair.
Hope this helps, whatever!
2006-07-23 19:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah...tell er to only stay with him if she REALLY loves him. him beatin her up and threatening her like that just because she walked with some dude is kind of harsh. if i were in her shoes, i'd leave him for a few reasons...1 his jealousy, 2 him threatening to beat her up, 3 him threatening to break up with her, 4 he seems to be the angry type....good luck to your friend though. (tell her to sit down and think about whether she really loves him or not, no one has the right to abuse any ther person)
2006-07-24 02:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by nDn tigress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your friend should date this guy. how can he love her if he dosent trust her. DUMP HIM in public, and this guy should be in jail if he wants to hit a girl!!!! if i was there i wouldent stand for it. imagine all your life living under fear
2006-07-24 02:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by nathan sharp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound like they are the loves of eachothers lives
2006-07-24 02:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by CaseySokach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves him...she should understand him...making him jealous by playing around....no man can take it....guess she learn her lesson.....if she wants him...she should changed herself....
2006-07-24 02:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by deepzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DID YOU PUT "OR WHAT EVER" ENOUGH?
I DONT KNO
2006-07-24 02:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by miss_thang_fa_sho_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋