2006-07-23 19:13:58 · 46 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might just be really nervous or shy.
2006-07-23 19:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by DL 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is probably just shy. If you really like him, let him get comfortable with you. Why do you like him in the first place? Is it looks? Is it his personality other than that one date? Is it both? He probably is shy but otherwise a decent guy. If you enjoy being with him outside of his lack of communication, you should probably give him a bit more opportunity to express himself. Try and make him feel comfortable around you. Let him know you're not gonna bite (unless warranted). If he is really a boring guy, he will talk endlessly about boring subjects. Or subjects that are at least boring to you. Hey, he's paying for your date, so what have you got to lose by giving him another chance? If there's someone else you like better, than end it and date him instead. Don't put this guy on the spot if you think he may just be shy. Don't ask him a ton of personal questions about himself. I understand that you want to know these things, but simply ask him what he thinks about things you tell him. He's got an opinion, and if you seem to be non-threatening, he will open up to you.
2006-07-23 19:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is 2 answer to this question, first maybe when you're chatting over the phone with the guy before the date, both of you felt attractive to each other but when you're out to the date, it don't happend like what you think, in short both of you don't felt compatible to each other when together
Second, both of you're shy to start a conversation, some guys or girl just like to listen to other people talking and they themself don't like to talk much although in the heart they liked you very much.
So the actual answer is for you to find you yourself. Did he still contact or sms you after the date?
2006-07-23 19:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by just curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself have found myself in situations like that many a time. And its not that we don't have much to say; its that at least for me it has alot to do with being nervous. Especially, if the girl I am with is attractive. But, if after awhile its still pretty quiet and it gets wierd than theres no real point in letting it drag out. Sometimes I'm more comfortable around certain personalities than others. Like, if i get the feeling that I'm being judged or critiqued, I notice that I become more conscious and aware of what I am saying, so I don't quite act like myself.
2006-07-23 19:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has happened to me many times. Some times I give a guy a second chance because one I had a date with a man who barely said a word. I didn't even think he was good looking. for some reason I saw him again. With in a short time he opened up and he became one of the loves of my lifle. We were together for two years and some circumstance happened that we couldn't make it a life time commitment. I will never regret my time with him.
So, if you are with a dull date, you just talk and talk and smile.
Give him one more chance and see what happens.
2006-07-23 19:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there; done that. I finished out the date, trying my best to hold the conversation on my own, then I never went out with him again. I was really polite about it all, but he just wasn't my type.
2006-07-23 19:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by URez2read 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he wasn't into you or he was shy.
If you're really into him then give him another shot...maybe go out on a date and do something he likes to do. It could get him talking.
If you're not interested then don't sweat it and move on.
personally, I like a guy who can hold a conversation. It shows he has personality.
2006-07-23 19:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sara Lee 23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respectfully finish the date. Thank the person for taking you out but graciously decline a second date.
* I hope the food was good. Better luck next time!
2006-07-23 19:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how wellu know him. Actions speak louder than words. Maybe he just feel comfortable with u by his side and have no need 4 conversation. Just yr presence is enough 4 him.
2006-07-23 19:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is a little like me If I am with somebody that is good at starting conversations I am good at talking back. but if they are not good then I have trouble saying things or starting the conversation. Oh I am just very shy and unsure of myself. not a snob
2006-07-23 19:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh Ive been there...and you know what? Now im marrying that guy! He was just shy at first, actually for awhile...and just with me. But now he is comfortable and we can talk about anything! It took awhile, but everything is great now! You should give the guy another chance, maybe things will be different! I sure hope so!
2006-07-23 19:16:44 · answer #11 · answered by JustWondering22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋