before I go away for a week to ask this girl out. I have been trying to ask her out for 3 weeks but havnt been able to do it yet. I am going to give it my all tomorrow, becasue I have never asked a girl out before and I need to stop being a loser.
If she says yes to lunch, is it all right that I couldnt have lunch with her until 9 days later becasue of my trip. ( I am just trying to make up excuses not to ask her out)
she is hot, and I am good looking, it should be easy but it is not. Is it good or bad she will have to wait 9 days before having linch with me if she agrees to?
2006-07-23 18:51:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GR Get it done
2006-07-23 18:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out she's a girl she expects to be asked her out. She is going to think what's wrong with this guy why doesn't he ask me out. Even if she doesn't what to, it will feed her ego and make her day. But ask with confidence and get this girl. You are man take charge thats your job. If she says no big deal move on. Don't waste your time chasing. More fish in the sea.
2006-07-23 19:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her what you said that you were nervous but decided to reveal your feelings to make a change but its up to her to decide if she wants to wait a while to see you again im sure its no problem 9 days is not too long and i hope she says yes cause you sound like a decent guy good luck
2006-07-23 18:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask her out but tell her you are going on vacation but as soon as you get back you will take her to lunch...Start slowly don't expect her to come on to you right away...Be a gentleman and get to know one another by talking...You will be alright..
2006-07-23 18:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say like, hey I got to go somewhere for about 9 days but when I get back do you wanna hang out? or can I call you when I get back? or something like that.
2006-07-23 18:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by sestrickland2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you get back from your trip, do you really want to ask her then make her wait 9 days til you go out
2006-07-23 18:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by gruntlicker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it dude hope you have better luck then i did, i just asked the girl i liked out and shes the only one at my school that i like and i got what is basicly a no so, go for it no regrets gl
2006-07-23 18:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by DirtyRavenCB47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy i waited for a year while my guy was overseas, in the Marines to have lunch with him
2006-07-23 18:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter. Just do it. She won't care about the logistics...the point is that you're asking her out!
2006-07-23 18:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by goatluvver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you get back. it'll only crack you up when you're away. plus it will not only give you time to compose you're(insecure?) self but also give you something to look forward to. good luck!!!
2006-07-23 19:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by gary r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have lunch with her after its a good way to test her to see if she really likes you.
2006-07-23 18:57:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋