there this girl i like a lot and she's 14 im 17 is that bad???
2006-07-23 18:50:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course not if u really like this girl u have the right to see if it will work out between u 2, if she likes u 2 is even better just see if it can work out. age does not matter when there is true feelings ;)
2006-07-23 18:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
i have a step doughter who is 15 and her father, I and her mother all agreed on a 2year diffence until she is 18 or out of high school, be friends with her she's still a little girl who's probably tring to be older than she really is, also remember this always (no matter how much her parents like you it can change in a blink of an eye and you'll end up in Jail for stagitory rape which at your age you can be tried as an adult) If you like her wait, just be friends, be a man and don't get drug into little girl games, that is something that all guys of any age need to realize 90% of all girls(women) like to mess with guys and most of the time they don't realize what they are getting themselves into. also don't be pressured by friends. I know that she's only 3 yrs younger than u but she in my opinion is way to young for you. if she were 18 and you were21 it would be alright, I KNOW it sounds stupid but use your brain It wasn't put there just to take up space( that's what i tell my step-children) listen I am 27 and my husband is 39 but after the age of 18 or 21 age isn't afactor, I know that it doesn't seem fair but that's how i feel about age differenceat your age {stick with girls your own age or at least grade in school}
2006-07-24 02:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you can wait 4 years.
Yea it's bad, there is not much a 14 year old will have in common with a 17 year old. Plus she probably only wants you for a ride to her girl scouts meeting, cause her mom's mini-van is so embarrassing
2006-07-24 01:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by not_in_it_4_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want to end up on the registered sex offenders site!! in 4 yrs nobody would care, but I can guarantee you at this age you DO NOT want to go down that road. In less than a year you'll be a legal adult, already in some states, if you were the father of a 14yr old girl would you want her with a 17yr old boy???? Think long and hard on this one!
2006-07-24 01:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what when i was 14 my b/f was 17
NO age don't matter
2006-07-24 01:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM 15 AND im bf is 17...so yeah i mean if u guys like each other then i say Go for it.just remember she is still a baby so when she gets fussing about little things you havbe to understand her or if u pressure her that would scare her...so NO means NO
2006-07-24 01:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. klOHe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would not be a fare relationship to you or her. 1st of all there is the age difference. then you have to look at the future of the relationship. You will be 18 soon and she will be 15. This would disallow your relationship legally. It would not be a good idea, because she is not going to just have you for one year if she really likes you.
2006-07-24 01:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is only 4 yrs difference and i do not feel that it is bad.just that when you are an adult at age 18 she will be only 15.
2006-07-24 01:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by luco302003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. if u really like her just take it slow. be polite to her parents and show them they can trust u. my husband and i r 4 years apart in age, so ur 3 isnt bad at all. i know a couple thats way differnt in age, his wife was born the same year he graduated high school. now thats gross in my opinion.
2006-07-24 01:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by kimmy209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay...but just beware, she is quite a bit more mature than you. it's not so bad that you like her, just kind of strange if she liked you...her friends would tease her and stuff, girls are cruel, especialy with behind the back stuff.
2006-07-24 11:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by spikibracelet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋