2006-07-23 18:32:32 · 18 answers · asked by prettycoolchick38 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love hurts because it is not perfect and sometimes it requires a lot of sacrifice. I am a very jealous person and have found myself in a situation that causes me a lot of grief at times.
There are a lot of obstacles in my relationship and really, my relationship is not very logical and/or realistic. I know that there are other people involved in the equation. But, I still care for this man. He makes me feel very, very special. I have decided to accept his faults and love him for who he is. Maybe time holds a future for us, and maybe it doesn’t.
Right now I need the kind of love that he offers me and I enjoy his friendship. I’m willing to back off and be his friend if that’s what the future holds. But for right now, I love hearing his voice and spending late nights chatting with him. I absolutely love his laugh. He’s a little loopy at times and sometimes pushy and persistent, but I wouldn’t change a hair on his head. He’s also very compassionate.
He teaches me a lot and has renewed some of my dreams that I thought were long dead. So, while love may hurt me sometimes as well, I recognize that love is sacrifice and it’s not always perfect.
Good luck and hang in there.
2006-07-24 04:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by fasn8n_67 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love Hurts because it is apart of a greater lesson.... A life lesson! If love didnt hurt you would never be able to enjoy the pleasure of love or even life for that matter. Pain allows for the healing process to begin. Dont forget what happens when we heal from broken bones. That bone gets stronger and is much harder to break in the same manner a second time. The heart is the same way. The pain will pass but the healing will live on because you will be forever a stronger person.
2006-07-23 18:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Controversy KING 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We dont met the right people, and because of that Love hurts. But its hard to just not seem like love hurts, but it does. But then when I'm hurting, I just think this person is not worth it. I'm not going to make this person ruin the way I feel about love. Even though that sounds easy to say, but its still hard to do.
2006-07-23 18:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by It's my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find something that doesn't hurt, please post it on yahoo answers. I'm sure there are a lot of people who would like to know what it is that is wonderful and doesn't cause some discomfort.
Child birth is one of the most painful experiences a woman can undergo. And, yet, after the baby is delivered, it becomes a great and loving experience. Many women do it over and over, again.
The birth of something new can be painful at times, but, its natural. So, as is often said,,,no pain-no gain.
2006-07-25 05:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you expect the other person to think, feel ,and act like you, it can hurt a lot. Even though we are all different, couples should have things in common, specially that loving feeling toward each other.
2006-07-23 18:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts because you care about that person so much but they really dont see how much you really care, it also hurts because love was not to be made perfect. Relationships have there fights just to make them stronger. but if you fight mor then you get along then take a vacation for a couple of weeks it will make them relize how much they love you it also make the heart grow fonder.
2006-07-23 18:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by tanya f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this i can say because if a person cant or wont love you the same way you love them well some one gets hurt it sucks yes may be you should care more about yourself be happy ok good luck to you
2006-07-23 18:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by shyshyunmee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people can be really selfish jerks. Also because if it didn't hurt, we wouldn't get a lot of good love songs.
2006-07-23 18:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lostmydammind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple bcoz u dont choose a right persone , u kick away and ignore right persone for some or the other reasone and u run after some 1 who is really not interested in u . or may be ur lover might be having some problem
2006-07-23 18:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by ickon2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you recognize love that feels good. If it was all good. How would you compare it if it didn't hurt a little too.
2006-07-23 18:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋