I am a young mother and my husband wants to go to a nudist resort at a family . . .camping. I don't know how I feel about public nudity. What should I do?
2006-07-23 18:24:36 · 12 answers · asked by carebear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Look first of all what is triggering this for him...other women or the true life behind nudism ?. It is the freedom..not sex for a true nudist. there are several different cultures that are sexually promiscuous. If its not for you maybe he isn't either.! Marriage decisions are made together!!!
2006-07-23 18:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never do anything that you are uncomfortable doing just because your husband wants to do it. Public nudity is not for everyone. If you are uncomfortable with it, you will really stand out.
Since you asked, it is definitely not for me but I am "old school" since I was born in a different generation. Modesty was highly desirable and I have no desire to change what has been normal for me for so many years. I have no problem with nudism...as long as it isn't me that is prancing around nude.
2006-07-23 18:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by ilse72 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like it go for it. If you don't, stay away...if you got it and are comfortable with it...GO FOR IT...its something new, adventurous...can't really knock it unless you try it. Or you can just tell your husband that your just not comfortable going to a nudist resort, because you just don't feel comfortable. He can't force you. He might get mad or upset, but if he loves you he will come to his senses and realize that he should respect your wishes.
2006-07-23 18:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is loony. People wear clothes for a reason. Nudists pretend that reason doesn't exist, but they delude themselves. There is natural shame for a stranger to see one's nude body. Your reluctance is that natural reticence. Nudists will try to convince you that that reticence is old judeo christian brainwashing. It is as natural as man. No matter what part of the world you go to, no matter what culture you are in, that natural reticence is everywhere. Your husband is a nut. Unbelievable.
2006-07-23 18:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go if you aren't comfortable. Personally, I could NEVER be a nudist (I am WAY too modest). But, I don't think that nudists are bad people- if you want to go for it. But, if you don't want to, don't be pressured into it.
2006-07-23 18:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try walking around your house and yard in the nude. Get your body used to the feel of wearing no clothes. Start going to the tanning bed and get an all over tan. Then try it. Who knows you might like it.
2006-07-23 18:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by sunbeamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only good looking people are allowed to be nude.
Otherwise I believe it's cruel and inhuman to torture other people with horrible images that they will never be able to block out of their brains.
2006-07-23 18:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it at least once. You might love it, if you hate it you never have to do it again and he'll owe you when you want to do something.
2006-07-23 18:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out how you do feel about it, before you end up there...defenseless. If you end up that you don't agree with it, you two have bigger issues to discuss.
2006-07-23 18:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him pressure you into something you're not comfortable with. i wouldn't want to go.
2006-07-23 18:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋