Are men attracted to submissive women?
Do you guys like being able to tell a woman what to do when you're having sex? Or would you rather be the submissive one?
I like to be dominated - I'm just curious.
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2006-07-23 18:20:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to expand upon this... lol ;)
...how far would you go with dominating a woman? any of you into that kinky Dom/sub stuff?
2006-07-23 18:26:38 · update #1
I am Dominant, and I love submissive women. For me, a submissive attitude is more important than any single quality in a woman, including her looks.
How far I go with a submissive depends mostly on her, which means her limits and her level of submission. Good communication is just as important in D/s relationships as any other.
It's not "being able to tell a woman what to do" that is the attraction; rather, it is the knowledge that I can if I want to. It is the control (or to be absolutely honest, the illusion of control) that is the turn on.
2006-07-24 08:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dom N 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a switch. I suppose that I fit into the semi-odd category of preferring to be a Dominant rather than a submissive, yet I rather be a bottom than a top. I do find that I am inclined to submissive women, and would not mind being the Dominant of one, but finding a switch would probably be ideal to a certain extent.
I'm not quite sure how well I would be at giving orders. I think that I could do it, but I would feel like I have absolute permission to do so (as opposed to implied permission), otherwise it would feel unnatural for me. My experience has been from the submissive side, but I know that isn't quite right for me.
I hope that's useful for your question.
2006-07-24 05:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can do both. My ex and I did both. More me telling her what to do. I did not have a problem with that at all. Getting it the when and how you want it is real good. It is only good it the other is having pleasure with the situation also.
One day I walked into the house, took off her pants, put her on her knees in front of the coutch and wrapped the leg of her pants around her neck for a little domination. I told her what a good girl she was for taking what I was giving. She got too wrapped up in the moment, along with me, and passed out on!!!
So whatever you do, be careful!!! It is supposed to be fun for all!!!
2006-07-23 18:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by OU812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to be dominated a few times a month! I get sick of being the aggressive one. So, a few times a month my girlfriend changes roles. I love it! All the teasing and playing.... Its all good!
2006-07-23 18:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like submissive women. but that's because i like to know im doing a good job and that she trusts me. If she doesnt like what im doing i really really really want her to speak up and let me know what's going on.
2006-07-23 18:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Brian P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the girls tend to like to be told what to do in the bedroom, but not in public. Happy to oblige.
2006-07-23 18:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by C J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to dominate better I M me on Aim spanishdude43 or yahoo messenger
2006-07-23 18:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by anthonyusa3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
submiisive women yes,hold you by the small of your back in one hand . then the back of your head in the other and hold you slightly suspended as your back slowly arches.then make you quiver and shake!
2006-07-23 18:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by toddcme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't tell a woman what to do, I may suggest but never tell.
2006-07-23 18:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kojak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to be in control but some guys take it to far and are just abusive
2006-07-23 18:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by lastie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋