so my ex asked me to marry him but he didnt give me a diamond ring its a promise ring and i still have it but he keeps asking me for it but i really dont want to give it back wat should i do
2006-07-23 18:19:51 · 22 answers · asked by I_LoVe_HiM!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep it it was given to you ....what a loser he is give you something then wants it back
2006-07-23 18:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by l2hunt2001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well a promise ring you dont legally have to give back a ingment ring on the other hand you do so legally you dont have to give it back it was a gift it's really up to you if you dont want to tel him that your not going to no matter what and that there is nothing he can tdo to get it from you that it's a ring it has ups and downs but it never ends and because of that your always going to have it that it was a gift from him to you that he was and always will be part of your life and that is the perfect thing to remember him by and you wont give that up
2006-07-23 18:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ralina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks for it back, u should give it to him. seems like he needs it more than u do. besides, one day ull get married and ur new bf will give u a real ring. where will that old promise ring goin to go then? so mite as well get rid of it now, while u have a scapegoat =P
2006-07-23 18:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by JustiN CrediblE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is considered an engagement ring, then you have to give it back. Court rulings have established that it is a conditional gift based upon the marriage taking place. If it was just a gift, then it legally yours to keep.
2006-07-23 18:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by rusty shackleford 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reality, you aren't required to return it since it was in fact a gift. Were I in your situation, I personally would give it back, since it is in essence a symbol of our previous relationship and I would want to let go of that memory in order to move on both mentally and emotionally.
I say, give it back :). I think returning it would help release you from whatever bad experiences the two of you might have shared while seeing each other. It is also likely that it would open doors psychologically for you to let go of your previous ties and start over---whether on your own or with someone new.
Good luck :).
2006-07-23 19:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need it? Are you trying to prolong your uncomfortable situation? If you want to end it and never hear from him again give it back and be done with him, next time you'll find the right guy with the real thing.
2006-07-23 18:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by mr.mister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the ring doesn't mean anything to you.. then pawn it... but don't give it back to him. It was given to you as a gift.. you can do whatever you want with it. But don't give it back to him.. you may see him one day with a new girlfriend.. and she may be wearing your ring ;)
2006-07-23 18:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the standard rule is - if he broke it off, you get to keep the ring but if you broke the engagement, then you must return the ring
that's the way it's always been and that's the way most judges
decide
2006-07-23 18:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he gave it to u as a promise ring he broke his promise so y should u give it back
2006-07-23 18:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~*bunny*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it back. You don't have any ties to him anymore, right?
Someone else may come along and offer you another ring / marriage.
2006-07-23 18:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him back his ring, He is tacky for asking for it back. Don't give him an excuse to contact you again. shut him up once and for all. that way you can also move on.
2006-07-23 18:27:55 · answer #11 · answered by black butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋