Okay this is complicated I am "messing" around with my ex boyfriends best friend (by the way the ex is cool with it). So anyways we were friends and then we "hooked up" and now when other people are around he ignores me and tries to "hook up" with other girls. I don't mind that he is trying to get with other girls because we are not together and we are just special friends and he knows that I don't feel anything romantic for him. And I am not a jelous type person and he knows that. But when its just him and I he is great but yet we all ways end up "hooking up". So my question is why does he ignore me around other people? Why dosn't he just treat me like he did before? Is he just using me for sex or does he really like me? So guys I am sure you all have been there!! Help me get into this boys head please!!!!
2006-07-23 18:13:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're the sex on the side kid. He doesn't respect you, and you don't respect yourself. When you're alone together, it is most likely premeditated on his end that you two will have sex, and so he puts on the charms to do so. Other than that, it's just like I said, you're the sex on the side.
2006-07-23 18:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about getting into his head if you're both just using each other for sex? Doesn't add up. He is using you when he can't find someone else. You must be a very needy person to put up with that crap. "hooking up"...means the same thing as fu>king....and this is not a pretty or romantic situation. Wise up and dump the guy.
2006-07-23 18:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm i'm sorry to say this but he is using you for your body. If he did really care about you he has a funny way of showing it in front of other people. You deserve better than to let some guy treat you like that. You can always ask him about it.
2006-07-23 18:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you
2006-07-23 18:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by whererwegoing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question, he is just useing you because he knows he can get in your paints, pull the plug and stop "hooking up" with him and he will leave you alone, or he will decide you are the one he wants and leave the others alone, but don't let him have his cake and eat it too or you will just be the cumbs.
2006-07-23 18:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Free Sex-nothing new thats what the trouble is in the world today and this is why it is expected of all of us. nothing is for real anymore.no commitment. another form of fast food
2006-07-23 18:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by zarandipity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's a mixture of both, Jen. But if you're not that into him, I need a gf.
2006-07-23 18:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it before. Its just sex
2006-07-23 18:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by chicago80boi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO TELL YOU SWEETHEART BUT HE IS USING
YOU FOR SEX, AND YOU REALLY NEED TO LEAVE
THIS ALONG, YOU DESEVE MUCH BETTER THAN THAT
DONT YOU THINK.
2006-07-23 18:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋