I'm in a relationship where the man I'm planning on marrying is not letting me know alot about his personal life. I feel like he has not shared alot of things with me. He means no harm but I know there's alot that needs to be told.
2006-07-23 18:10:45 · 5 answers · asked by chellemd83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's embarrassed about his personal life. If that's the case, then I'd reconsider marrying him, especially if you've come this far without knowing. Or maybe he just doesn't think it's important. If he's touchy about it, he might be insecure about it or think it's inferior to normal men. Most importantly, let him know you care and ask him about it straight up. It could also be an inherited/evolution thing. In general, guys don't like to express their feelings (of course there are exceptions). It's kind of hard to explain, but it's like a sign of weakness. he'll express himself, but in subtle ways.
2006-07-23 19:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Silver Spoon 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
UH OH!. Maybe you should re think this whole marriage thing. I would sure hope he don't open up a big ole can of worms and you find out maybe he has another wife somewhere or belongs to a multi wife colony. Just think it over. He probably is hiding something.
2006-07-23 18:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men? Secretive? How ironic. If he wants to tell you something, he will. Perhaps if your relationship continues on, you'll find that he will open up more with time.
2006-07-23 18:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask and if he doesn't say- either he's hiding something serious or- doesn't want to hurt you because he loves you and it's in the past.
my bf says guys don't like being pussys.
2006-07-23 18:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a partnership, doesn't sound like he's ready for it hun.
2006-07-23 18:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Gynolotrimena Lubriderma-Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋