why do people think that it is ok to cheat on their husband, boyfriend, girlfriend,wife? There are so many questions on here about people wanting to cheat and thinking its ok and wanting a simpathetic answer- give me a break- what is so difficult about ending the relationship that you have commited yourself to ( not talking about people being married) b4 you go around and find intrest in another sex( or same depending on your likes)- just looking for a legitamate reason thats all. and if you are married why would you take your vows and relationship so lightly- dosent anyone think about the other person?
2006-07-23 18:06:51 · 25 answers · asked by sexysnowboarder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only time they( the cheater) thinks of the other person is when they get caught, or while trying to hide it from them.- sorry you cant have your cake and eat it too-
2006-07-23 18:17:57 · update #1
I couldn't agree more with you. I have been married for 15 years and I will admit that at one time I was tempted to cheat on my husband. It is like there are people out there just hunting down people that are committed to someone else. I stood up for my marriage and turned the person down with no regrets. Now a days people just say hey lets get married and then 6 months later they realize that they made a mistake and then they don't know how to call it quits. Instead they cheat. I have no idea what is wrong with people in our world today, it is almost like our nations morality is gone.
2006-07-23 18:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by angelsforanimals 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think cheating is wrong and hope to never do it. However, I am a flirtatious person and the attention is great. I think that is what it comes down to to people, and they have no self control. It is very sad, but I can see how it happens. I used to think that means you don't love the person you are with, but I have changed my mind in the recent months. You can still love someone but want acceptance of another. It does not make it right, but I have yet to also put my finger on why it has to happen. I think humans are sexual creatures, why not with just one person? i dont know. im sure cause it gets boring and repetitive...
2006-07-24 01:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the ones that are talking about cheating aren't secure in their marriage and should never have gotten married to begin with....Plus they dont take their vows serious , like they should...Most can't grasp the concept that Trust is a major part of any relationship
2006-07-24 01:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of ppl enter relationships with good intentions but I think as a society we don't hold love to the same standard as we used to. PPl don't know what commitment is anymore ppl don't know themselves and we are so quick to jump into some ones arms with out getting to really know themselves or that person. A lot of ppl our insecure confused and down right selfish there for relationships become a common accessory with little value.
2006-07-24 01:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by BestM&M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, most people who cheat are thinking of the other person. They cheat because they don't want to hurt the other person emotionally by breaking up. It is a cowardly thing, but most times that is the logic.
2006-07-24 01:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not the right person to answer that, but, whenever I will have a relationship in which the girl actually loves me, I'd give up anything for her, even life, if I have to. I believe in love and believe there is definitely someone for everbody and everybody should respect that code. I would love to fall in love, rather rise in love.
2006-07-24 01:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, it seems that people's values are messed up when it comes to relationships. I also think people should think longer and harder before they get married, so many people are getting divorced nowadays. I think marriage is now a socially acceptable thing to do ( as is divorce) rather than a lifetime commitment as it should be.
2006-07-24 01:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Courage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just don't understand the meaning of the words "Exclusive Relationship"
You want to know what's wrong with people?
Short answer: A Lot
2006-07-24 01:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what your saying I think cheating is the most terrible thing you can do on your partner but now people are not that loyal if they can get away with it they would.
2006-07-24 01:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree!
When I am with a woman I am there 100%
But for some reason alot of woman dont like nice guys?
2006-07-24 01:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋