Why ?
2006-07-23 18:04:40 · 25 answers · asked by Johny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Testify! Yeah they're always after the assholes even though they usually say they like nice guys.
2006-07-26 07:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Nomrednoj 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That's a good question. A lot of that has to do with genetics & things that happen in your life. For example, a family member of mine was sexually abused when she was younger by her father & well with all those emotions & respect for themselves killed by that situation, she seeks men who have a good first impression but that drink alot, care very little & are very confident. As a result, she does not end up with what she deserves but instead with what she was born around. Her father is exactly like that. Also genetic could be where your mother dates an asshole who is an alcoholic well then the daughter would likely be attracted to an alcoholic or be one herself. But eh maybe most of the girls who date assholes are just tired of dating nice guys who try too hard. Sometimes it's not bad to try something new.
2016-03-27 04:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wrong. Women are attracted to gentlemen. There aren't many out there though. Women must therefore choose between an asshole and a wuss. Women believe they can change an asshole, but that wuss is forever. If you are a nice guy, you are a wuss. A woman won't stay forever with an asshole either. What you are looking for is a balance between the two. An asshole when appropriate, and an asskisser when appropriate. A nice guy is an asskisser, and therefore a wuss, btw. It is like most things... balance is the key.
2006-07-23 18:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Assholes are more of a challenege. They don't show women that they like them right off which creates attraction. Women want what they can't have. Women want alpha males because in primitive times they need a guy that can take care of them and their family - therefore attracted to wealth, status, and value. Assholes are cocky so they have high confidence which demonstrates the wealth, status, and value basically showing raw power. WOMEN LOVE POWERFUL GUYS. Nice guys on the other hand act like wussbags and display unwanted and unattractive traits.
2006-07-23 18:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Player 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are right. most girls are attracted to assholes, but there are those women who like nice guys. you just have to know where to find them. Girls like assholes because they think that being with that certain guy is "cool". WRONG. most of the time, 'assholes' will only get the girls in more trouble.
2006-07-23 18:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is no such thumb rule...depends on person to person...but it's true that sometimes a nice girl will fall for a maniac...i guess it's the excitement and novelty of being with someone surprising and unpredictable that holds them...nice guys are usually booring too !
2006-07-23 18:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nisha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably because "assholes" act confident, which women like.
They usually have a sense of humor- even if its mean.. and they're sarcastic.. which I like.
I don't really like sensitve guys..
But I think nice guys always win in the end.. once women see how great they are.
2006-07-23 18:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
not really.it just takes some experience to know that they are assholes.Some of them act nice till you start to get attached to them then the truth comes out.they are the ones that get divorced. You nice guys have to let yourself be known and do not be afraid to have fun with the one you are with,even it it isn't the right one.have fun get out more and don't be afraid to talk or invite someone to lunch or dinner or a movie.but be sincere about it. no one likes mean people .there are too many.
2006-07-23 18:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by zarandipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are attracted to the bad boy type because then tend to have what it takes to get them. Some women do it to make someone jealous...There are tons of reasons.
2006-07-23 18:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by red_bracelet11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not attracted to assholes but somehow they always seem to find me.
2006-07-23 18:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by skyblu513 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋