ok as u know my bf moved to Arizona. i cant sleep,and im depressed i cry every nite. how can i feel better??

Question

i feel so lonely, empty and unloved. i miss him. i dont know wat to do! someone help or im gona go crazy, it hurts so much, i cant do this if it stays this way. but i cant leave him i love him and plus i dont wana hurt him. PLEASE HELP!!

Answer 1

Spend your time doing something that amuses u. when u feel sad abt him, think abt the happy moments u together had, think abt the funny moments and smile. call him when u feel to much depressed. think that ur BF wud feel happy if u were happy. go shopping, learn any new things.

Answer 2

Well, first, you are asking the RIGHT question. . . How can I feel better ?
lonely is a feeling,
unloved is not a feeling, it's a judgement. Emptiness, hurt, sad, bored, upset, anxious, frustrated, angry...these are feelings.
see, cnvc.org
to learn feelings literacy....under "nvc concepts"
our language frequently teaches us to confuse judgements for feelings...
Good luck finding your way...

Answer 3

Take one day at a time, if it is meant to be it will work. Try not to look ahead and try to find something each day to be happy about. Go with your heart.

Answer 4

Do what 50 million lonely fat chicks do everynight.... use a vibrator while looking at Brad Pitt's picture.

Answer 5

obviously he dont feel the same about u, he is the one who left u,move on honey,it takes time but it does get better,and everything is gonna b alright

Answer 6

I really feel your pain....I do. I'm not great in the advice department right now.....pray....my best answer. It's so hard when you miss your man's arms around you. Pray.

Answer 7

well..u still can talk to him in phone rite???try to do something that makes u feel better like shopping with ur friends...

Answer 8

Move to arizona.