Hey well my boyfriend and I have been together for like a year. We are engaged. We're gonna wait until we're married to have sex. Anyhow I seen him masterbating the other day and well it kind of excited me, but I noticed that his dick is only like 3 inches when it is hard. I just don't see how that is supposed to satisfy me, and I don't know what to do. I love him with all my heart, but I'm having a hard time dealing with his penis size. If anyone has any advice I'd love to hear it. Cindy
2006-07-23 18:03:35 · 22 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooooh, thats a tough one. Well, you could stay with him and collect toys if you REALLY love him. If you aren't sure, find the nearest exit and run. Marriage is based on love but a healthy sex life IS a MAJOR part of any healthy marriage. Your call sis.
2006-07-23 18:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Gynolotrimena Lubriderma-Smith 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
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2016-05-21 20:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a problem if you think sex is all there is to marriage. IF the two of you can fit toghter close enough then three inches is enough to reach the most sensitive spots that yo need . might reduce the chances of pregnancy as the sperm will have farther to travel and may not survive. there are many good books on the market that deal with this problem of size and what to do about it.also talk to a fertility doctor toghter. and there are other ways such as toys and add ons that will give you what you seem to want. you would have a different problem if he had an larger than normal dick. chose your poison and live with it .many couples do. and are quite happy.
2006-07-23 18:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is a great thing that you want to wait until you are married to have sex. That certainly is hard to come by now days. Since you haven't had sex with your boyfriend or soon to be husband it is probably ok to say that you don't know what feels good and what doesn't feel good. Once you start having sex when you get married you will begin to know him better and beable to understand what does and doesn't feel right. Love is a major part of having good sex. You are off to a great start because being aware of your own feelings is a great accomplishment and feeling comfortable to ask questions is another accomplishment.
2006-07-23 18:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyandcarefree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! It's not the size of the boat...it's the motion in the ocean! Even the Titanic sunk! lol. but no really...are you both virgins? If he is a virgin then it is definitely normal for him not to see his full size. Alot of guys seem smaller until they start to have sex. It's common for most girls to dream of a guy with a big penis but the bigger they are I believe it to be less comfortable. I've only been with 2 guys and the larger of the two couldn't satisfy me at all. It was more for him and sex was completely uncomfortable. I think you guys will be fine. Continue to wait it out. Or shoot...try it out before marriage afterall! Its about love though...dont let it discourage you.
2006-07-23 18:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by MrsStrow2 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You might be surprised. If you are a virgin, then you may not know how big a penis you need to satisfy you. 3 inches could be enough. Maybe he wasnt fully turned on while masturbating and therefore not fully erect. Other than that, there is no way to make it bigger, so deal with it or buy a dildo! Good luck.
2006-07-23 18:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Moxie 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well i dont know what to say but if u really love him like u say u do then stay with him and you'll be more happy because you love him it doesnt really matter about the size it just matters how much u love him but if u want a bigger size then leave him and find someone else but i say stay with him
2006-07-24 16:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by erick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably can get longer-- it can be up but not fully up. Just masturbating usually isn't as exciting as real sex and a lot of times guys just want to get it over with so they can move on with their day.
Also if your watch porn some of those guys have huge units so be realistic.
2006-07-23 18:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by glenbrent 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Size really doesnt matter! Its the motion in the ocean honey! Follow your heart! Are you in it for love or sex? I know sex is a plus but come on really.......
2006-07-23 18:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by brittanyj05cm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are questioning this relationship on account of penis size, then you have a problem. Size doesn't matter. 3inches - 7inches, etc. they all do the same thing. Penetrate. And rubbing.....mmmm.
2006-07-23 18:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋