I know this will be hard for anyone to belive but i have never really dated.Im 29 and ment the nicest man online at an question and asnwer board we both went to three years ago. Since then we have grown very close and talk on the phone and etc..I really would love to be with him one day as i have so many issues and he is great with me and helps me settle each one of them and loves me despite them. The big thing is I don't think my family will ever go along with this becuase he is in his fifties and all but, hes a young fifty if you know what i mean here. I am very close to my family and have never been able to be out on my own yet due to my issues. What do you all think? Any helpful hints?
2006-07-23 17:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by sammy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO the guy is not married and i have ment him thanks guys for your input it was appreciated.
2006-07-24 07:17:07 · update #1
Ok in my opinion you should do what your heart says. Sure you must love your family but you need to make this decision by yourself. Age isn't a factor for dating, and if your family loves you they'll stick by your side no matter what.
2006-07-23 18:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Issues" could mean about anything, so any answer you get will only be as nondescript.
Unless your issue is that your family can't/won't let you leave, I would think they would be estatic that you've met someone, even in their 50's if you're almost 30. So I'm not sure what the problem is. The question now is, are you prepared to move forward, despite any obstacles?
2006-07-24 01:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea....I think the guy is married with a family. He's not going to come clean on this until you press to meet him. Don't try. Just have the friendship from afar and find yourself a REAL man who is closer to your age. This man is too old for you and playing you.
2006-07-24 01:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
madam there is a limit ur just going down to fifty o ghosh
there is lot of boys there u can call me if u dont get anyone
but mam this guy must probably a playboy or tricking u
u bettar be careful.and do not do anything discreet with him as this may hurt ur family.in my opinion u can have this guy as friend but not ur life partner.i remember a joke that is naughty after sixty but ur friend started it before.
2006-07-24 01:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by daben c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that this guy is not some creep and you really like each other the go for it. If your family really cares about you they'll at least give him a chance. Either way it's your life and your happiness.
2006-07-24 01:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey- age is only a number. and due to your "issues," parents are normally over protective. My parents never liked me dating whites- but hey, they got used to it.
If you like this man, and he likes you despite your issues. Then go for it. Family will always be family.
2006-07-24 01:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget that man,familys are closer than any body dont let a guy come between you and ur family
2006-07-24 01:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Michael C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you really love him and want to be him him that age doesn't matter. Age is just a number, its your maturity and your feelings that really count!
2006-07-24 01:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by Christine!!!♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, i think you should go for this one.
2006-07-24 01:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time ask short questions please
2006-07-24 01:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋