She was my little star, my sun and she left for college over a year ago and I didn't think of her for awhile, but then out of the blue, I had a dream about her, and not one of "those" dreams, but a nice dream and then last night another dream and it's tearing me apart. I loved her for two years, and we became very close friends, but unfortunately nothing ever happened and I know I should let her memory go but she was the first girl I ever loved with all my heart.There was an age difference but we didn't care. She had a boyfriend but I loved her anyway and she loved me. Sure unrequited love, but love all the same. How do I stop thinking about her, how do I stop dreaming about her? I don't need this right now. How do I let her go? Please help. No flames, just please help. It hurts so bad.
2006-07-23 17:51:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not easy to get over someone that you love a lot. But try to keep yourself busy and hang with friends. As of now you will still have dreams of her because she is always on your mind but as time goes by they will fade away. You need to date other girls and go on with your life. Don't cheat yourself from not dating other girls. Another my just capture your heart. Good luck!
2006-07-23 18:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , most of people's love & young relationships lasts, but some may not last. it's because you guys may grew arpart from eachother . everything . if you can't move on . then that's your fault for not leaving the past. sometimes love can be real good, but in the end, everything mostly falls apart. for SOME loves. good luck in life though ' &keep your head up .
2006-07-23 17:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When was the last time you spoke to her? If its been a while maybe give her a call and tell her that you were thinking about her and wanted to see how she was doing. Keep it simple, and maybe you'll realize that shes doing her own thing now.
2006-07-23 17:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion I dont see no prb between the a lengthy time period. yet u sound like ur truly falling for this woman. believe me age would not remember. What concerns is what you experience & who cares about what others imagine.. although if we provide u some advises u can under no circumstances administration your thoughts. i love my bf to lack of existence & his 32 years previous & im 22 years previous. & idc abt what others imagine. So its all ur selection that's what i imagine abt it. G.success
2016-10-15 03:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you fell, had this bf years ago. i run into him a few weeks back all the old feeling came back again, i dreams about him and everything,i even met his wife i think he desire someone better, God help me but i still love him.i know how it hurts i am in the same boat as you.
2006-07-23 18:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this like a guy or girl?...you...i know ur talkin about a girl..but...wow if this is a guy she is missing out there arent to many guys like u but **** then again once u **** you'd prolly move on...
2006-07-23 17:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by its_that_girl10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let go and move on. try and keep yourself busy. it is hard when you love someone. but the days get easier. try putting it on paper your feeling. you can either keep it or throw it out. good luck.
2006-07-23 17:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boat I'm in is so similar it is freaky so, if you get a good answer, you let me know, alright? Good luck.
2006-07-23 18:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe how sweet , now go on with you bad self find a new little star , sun, and even a moon ..........
2006-07-23 17:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by bigred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your dreams r trying to tell you something . maybe you shouldn't try to forget her maybe you should find her and see how she is doing.
2006-07-23 18:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋