2006-07-23 17:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by b j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the setting. But a good way that works in just about every setting is:
Simply say "excuse me" if they're talking. Introduce yourself to the entire group and throwing a compliment in there can't hurt either. Something like, "I don't mean to interrupt such a group of lovely ladies, but I just had to come over and introduce myself." A comment like that takes care of all three. You excuse yourself for interrupting, pay the compliment and introduce yourself. Keep eye contact with the one you're wanting to truly get to know, but don't ignore the rest of the group. It's that simple!
Best Wishes!
2006-07-23 17:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The mistake that most guys make is to only talk to the girl they think is attractive. Don't be disrespectful and ignore her friends. Talk to all of them. And don't monopolize their time. Have a quick conversation, and then excuse yourself. Come back later and ask for her number. Also, don't hit on a bunch of girls - it's almost insulting that you tried to hit on us, AND every other girl there. Pick one girl, and if you must hit on other girls that night, wait until she's left, or go to another bar yourself. Also, guys always do this "oh I know what kind of girl you are" thing - they are always trying to figure us out and lump us into some category. Well then we know what type of guy you are - a dumb *** who's always trying to lump every girl into a category. Don't force drinks on girls who say they don't want any more. No means no. Don't open conversation with "why aren't you smiling" or "why are you in a bad mood?" I absolutely HATE that shi*. My answer, in and ideal world where I could express myself freely would be "I AM in a good mood, but I'm not going to walk around the bar smiling at every guy because I don't want you all to come over and talk to me". Don't name drop, and don't talk about girls you dated who were models. I'm sure there is more, but this is all that comes to mind right now.
2006-07-23 17:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confident, just say Hello. However, if you think you might falter even the tinsiest bit with that approach, wait until she isn't w/her friends. That way, she will also be more receptive to talking to someone she doesn't know. Some girls feel that a guy approaching her when she is with friends is like an ambush, its puts her on the spot. Let yourself be impulsive. If you think its the right time, go for it. Good luck!!!!
2006-07-23 17:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subtle eye contact and a sweet smile with the one you like in the group should go a long way. Most likely she would feel special and individual because she was choosen amongst the group. Its great talking to the entire group but try to avoid much of it, because chances are one of the other girls might start liking you and you may get side tracked from your goal female.....Or wait till she is by herself....
2006-07-23 17:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Nadine N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An opinion opener is a good way to open a set. See the site.
2006-07-23 17:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the whole group and later single out the one you like.
2006-07-23 17:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by Steph15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi to everyone, then say hi 'jane' to the girl he likes so she knows his attention is for her. Maybe even a hug.
2006-07-23 17:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be real say hi to everyone but still try to focus on the one you want @ the same time
2006-07-23 17:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up and say hi dont be shy we dont bite
2006-07-23 17:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by meowbutt2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋