We've talked about it. Its come up in many conversations. I know she is totally scared. I want to do it randomly one time, and I dont want it to be planned. I know that she would go along with it, but I would continue to have the feeling that its not something she wants. And it would destroy me to know I made her do something that she didnt want to do. I want to do it. She says she does but she is scared. I told her that we would do it when she was ready.
I dont think she ever will be...
2006-07-23 17:46:56 · 34 answers · asked by tyler_arnette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont smoke.
I brush three times daily.
I chew gum and mints..
My breath isnt bad.
2006-07-23 17:48:56 · update #1
another thing.
everyone said we are too young.
we are both 16..
and she is older...
She said she doesnt know how...
So she is scared.
She hasent done it before.
2006-07-23 17:57:07 · update #2
If she's scared to french kiss you, is it really that important that she does? I don't think you should make her, and just let it happen natrually, and when she's comfortable.
2006-07-23 17:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by oolala 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing to be scared about when it comes to French kissing. If she's really nervous about it but wants to try it, suggest to her that you do it a little bit at a time. Start off with open mouth kisses, then do a little tongue, then a little more, etc etc. If you want to just get the whole tongue thing out of the way, both of you stick your tongues out and press them together. That way, your tongues have already touched, so you might as well French kiss. If she's going to be that much of a prude about it, don't kiss her at all. Make HER want it. Good luck.
2006-07-23 17:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by i_hate_subway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not that kind of girl, when she gets older she will do that and more, the best thing is to never ask her that again, but tell her that you respect her and that french kissing isn't wrong but you understand that she just isn't quite old enough yet. At her present age she probably compares french kissing to kissing her dad. Also you ,might think about this, if you turn her on to french kissing, she might want to see if other guys french kiss different and not tell you. just enjoy that she is not like all the other girls right now.
2006-07-23 17:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by timm1954 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she's scared, then she's probably just scared. Damn hormones. She WILL be ready....when she's ready. Of course, kissing isn't exactly the same thing as having sex so if she's just scared because she's not exactly sure how to do it, I was one of those, then doing it, in a way that is natural, might not be a bad thing.
2006-07-23 17:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by hecatesmoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell would she be scared? i mean, ok. tell her that there is nothing to be afraid of, that its just a fun way to show your affection for eachother. tell her it doesnt matter if she doesnt know how, because thats probably what shes afraid of. make sure she is totally comfortable with you as well. no one wants to kiss someone they dont really like.
2006-07-23 17:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by punkdtn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just do it and it will come easily than she thinks. you might want to give her some kind of warning so she dont feel weird about it happening with out knowing and then it could get messy.
2006-07-23 17:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by crystal_brown347 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you have bad breath or you just are toscratchy on the mouth
2006-07-23 17:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by ronicathe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women just feel weird doing it. My fiancee feels the same way. It's just something we'll have to live with.
2006-07-23 17:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear of tongues, that is the only thing i can come up with for the second everyone else has already added the mint thing
2006-07-23 17:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by mooselover000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her time wait a while and if she doesn't do it soon try it out if she says she's ready she's ready she can be scared just show her it's not a scary thing
2006-07-23 17:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by tropicana484 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋