im together with a guy and we have been doing great. he tells me last night how he cares about me in a serious way. ive been txting another guy jason as a friend lately and my other boy knew and asked about it today. scared i said no bc i didnt think it was a big deal but he knew i was lying. i apologized 1357193575 times and he apparenlty forgave me... but hes still being bitter? and i cant take that bc i care about him SOOO MUCH. idk what to do and i hope he gets over this.... help me. =(
2006-07-23 17:39:25 · 10 answers · asked by hiimehasmile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some things about guys
1. guys get very jealous
2. guys need to b constantly reminded that they r loved
3. guys dont want u to talk to or about ur other guy friends (cause of their jealousy)
4. guys are guys
5. even if a guy says hes over it most of the time hes not even if he doesnt relize it 4 himself
6. well sorry but he has a right to still b mad, u lied to him and about a friend, a guy friend so it will take him a while to get over that if he ever realy does, it will realy make him think 4 a while and thats not always a good thing (most of the time not) u need to remind him that u care bout him and not this other guy ur talking to. you dont need to stop talking to him just dont lie about him.
well i hope these 6 things helped u! good luck!!
2006-07-23 17:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by my horse is a helmet breaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of he shouldn't care that your talking to another man. He should be able to trust you. Second dont say your sorry more than once after that its just a word. Do you question him about women he talks to. if you do u need to stop if yall care for one another yall need to trust one another and stop acting teenagers. Were the boy gets mad everytime you look at another man or the other way around
2006-07-24 00:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by meowbutt2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him that u talked to that jason guy because if you dont he will eventualy find out and get really mad at u for not tellin him, if u tell him urself thn he wont get that mad, he mit not even get mad. Tell him ur sorry again and tha u messed up, if he doesnt forgive u thn he isnt good enough for u.
Hope it all works out the way u want it!
2006-07-24 00:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by sophia j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you lied about it and that makes guys even more suspicious - because why would you lie if you had nothing to hide you know, now hes going to always remember that you lied over a petty message and hold it against you - basically you should have never lied, and if you care about him so much and you knew he would get upset over you texting this guy then why are you doing it?( friends or not)
2006-07-24 00:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by sexysnowboarder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he is bitter. he thought he was the only guy you were interested in so he poured out his heart to you. only to find out you have been txting another guy. you have to give him time to get over it. he wont forget it though. he will always be worried that the other guy will make a move on you. thats how guys react.
2006-07-24 00:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop lying to him or else he's gonna think you're cheating on him. Tell him the truth from now on! You also need to talk to him about this. Tell him you're really sorry and you were just afraid. Also you should probably stop texting this other guy.
2006-07-24 00:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. He's just confused why you lied to him, because if it really was nothing then he probably wonders why you felt you needed to. If he says he's over it then trust him and move on trying to forget about it. Don't worry everything will work out fine!
2006-07-24 00:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE HAS A RIGHT TO FEEL THE WAY HE DOES. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL TO BE LIED TO, THAT NOT GOOD,
IT ABOUT TRUST, AND IT IS A BIG DEAL. AND MAYBE
YOU NEED TO REALLY LOOK AT THIS. AND FIQURE OUT
WHAT YOU WANT OR WHO YOU WANT.
2006-07-24 00:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could just say this other guy is gay or is one of your close cousins.
2006-07-24 00:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by septboy19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop yr text friend.
2006-07-24 00:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋