Hi, I'm new. Here's my situation. When I was in middle school, a boy and a couple of his friends came and sat next to me. He was with two of his friends and they were whispering to him "Do it now. Do it." I didn't know what they were talking about, and all of a sudden he asked me out. I was a little shocked because we were sortof friends and I didn't know he liked me like that. I said no, mostly becase I wasn't old enough to date and I was a little shy. I think I hurt his feelings and I know that after I said no, other kids in my grade were walking up to me and asking me why I wouldn't go out with him and, in a way, teasing me. That was about five years ago. Well, I've kept a secret all these years and that secret is that I think I like him too. I know his email and I was wondering, should I send an apology for embarassing him and ask to be friends or should I just forget him and move on? I've never felt this way about anybody before. Thank you for reading this.
2006-07-23 17:26:50 · 6 answers · asked by Daphne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 17 now and I wasn't allowed to date until I was 17 so I've been thinking about dating. I figured if I told him how I feel before I was 17, I'd just have to turn him down again.
2006-07-23 17:32:19 · update #1
Don't apologize....just explain in email what happened, he'll understand he was 5 years younger at the time too. End your email with "so, are you still available and willing to take another chance on a date?" or something like that. Something light. Go ahead and try, whats it going to hurt? Much luck!
2006-07-23 17:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email explaining to him what happened. Lay your cards on the table. Let him know exactly how you feel. You obviously have strong feelings for him if this incident is still on your mind after all these years. Good luck!
2006-07-24 00:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email asking him how hes been. Tell him how you feel, you have nothing to lose, then wait for a reply.
2006-07-24 00:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by mariusz360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did 5 years back was right. If you really love him now then contact him and express your feelings. He may accept you in case he loves you still.
2006-07-24 00:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD LET THIS GO, IT BEEN FIVE YEARS AND I SURE HE HAS GONE ON WITH HIS LIFE,
AS FOR WHAT HAPPEN, YOU WERE YOUNG. SO I WOULD
HOPE THAT YOU HAVE LEARN FROM THIS,. BUT IF YOU
FEEL THAT YOU NEED TO DO THIS THEN JUST BE HONEST
WITH HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU REALLY FELT BACK THEN, AND GO FROM THERE.
2006-07-24 00:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait so long
wat grade are you in now
2006-07-24 00:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by curious george 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋