if so how long was you in contact with the person before you met if you did at all?and is it really possible to be in love with someone you have never met?
2006-07-23 17:07:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, YES, Yes, and YES
It's a long story but..
- I was 13, he was 15.
- We talked online for 2 years before moving on to the PHONE
- We talked on the phone/online for 2 MORE years before meeting
- 2 months after meeting I had graduated HS and moved to California to live with him and go to college with him
- 2 years after THAT we are engaged and getting married next year
I was in love after a couple of months.. Not deeply. But in love. It took him a bit longer. And it took a few years getting closer and closer talking more and more each day.. By 3 years it was VERY serious..
But this was all because we were young.. I've known of adults that moved MUCH faster.. Met after 2-3 months.. married after 2-3 years..
I loved him with all my heart before I had ever seen a picture of him.
I believe meeting someone online can be BETTER than meeting someone in person or at a bar because you are NOT basing your love on their looks.. It was THREE years before I had a picture of my fiance.. He was embarassed because he was overweight .. but that whole time he didn't know I loved big guys!
So that was something that let both of us know that we loved eachother for our inside, not our outside.. We talked on the phone every night sometimes 3 hours . .we talked on AIM for 3-4 hours a day and played online games together.. It was soo amazing and so deep. We have now lived together for 2 years but I STILL miss those days and those late night phone calls.. We have a wonderful playful, loving, committed relationship but it will never be quite as DEEP as it was back then ..
2006-07-23 17:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
Yes It Is Possible To Love Someone You Have Never Met Before. Sometimes Online Relationships Are Really Good Because You Get To Know The Person From The Inside Out. You Get To Know All About Their Personality And Everything Before Getting Right To What They Look Like. I've Dated Online In The Past And They Work Well. I had One Person That I Have Been Friends With For About Six Years Now...We Did The Whole Dating Thing, Broke Up, But We Still Remain Friends...
2006-07-23 17:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by EvEl_LiL_kArEbEaR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a guy through a computer system at college before the internet was commonplace. We spoke quite a lot and then when we met... we dated for 8 months. We split up in the college summer holiday as we lived quite a distance apart.
6 years later we got back in contact via the internet, and chatted and emailed for about a year. We met up a couple of times and then that was it...
It is now 8 years later and we are coming up to our 5th wedding anniversary.
However it's not always like this... I did also meet up with someone else that I had been in contact with via the internet (not when I was with hubby, obviously) and he was NOTHING like he had described online, and he was really horrible when I said I didn't want to see him again and kept sending me abusive emails etc. That is the nightmare... if you split up there is no hiding as they already have all your contact details. I think I changed my email address in the end.
2006-07-23 19:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by dashabout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My online relationship started out with this guy when I was 14 and he was 18. I ended up having a major crush on him and we became really really close. To this day, we still haven't met but hope to, soon. I no longer have feelings for him but we remain really good friends.
My cousin had an online relationship that went on for three years. It ended pretty badly. Plus it was long distance!
2006-07-23 17:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start falling in love, but until you know the person's everyday habits you can't be sure. I met the guy I'm seeing on a dating service if that helps. Once I found out his name I looked up his address, researched online and all taht. On our first date I didn't get in a car with him at first but my instinct told me it was OK. And I didnt give out a last name until I had spent some time with him.
2006-07-24 17:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I had for a relationship of two years. I met her from online and soon we had started dating. Unfortunately, it didn't work out but her and I are still friends with each other which I am happy about.
2006-07-23 17:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible........I'm in love with a guy i met online and there are 7 states between us......now we've been together for a year in-a-half and i met him 4 monthes after our relationship started...now he's moving here to live w/me and he's amazing......I'm just sorry i didn't meet him sooner......but be carefull as well try to talk on the phone and learn bout his past and ask allot of question more than once to c if he changes his answer...this is so u can be sure he's not a sicotic freak..lol
2006-07-23 17:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by emy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a several encounters w/ online dating. 1st one-one met for a month 1 date, 2nd one-met for 2 months 5 mo dated, 3rd one met for 2 weeks going on 4 months. I've met others whom I've talked to but just briefly. I like it but you do have to be carefull
2006-07-23 17:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by Code3EMT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my sister was and is still
in an on-line relationship she has talked to the guy for a year and then they started to see each other for 3 years they are now engaged to be married next thursday.
and from what i see they loooooove each other
hope that answers your question
but be careful hun. alot of ppl on line are liers but alot are honest
you just never now
my opinon you should be very careful if you decided to see some one from online for the first time
2006-07-23 17:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Crystel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I fell in love on the computer but we never met. Big age difference and he doesn't know I love him.
2006-07-23 17:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by frankiegirl1122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋