i hate when a guy says he loves u then goes n cheats but y do they do that
2006-07-23 16:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by I_LoVe_HiM!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says that he learned his leson n wats me back wat should i do cuz i think i still have feelings for him n we where going to get married this comming summer
2006-07-23 16:49:15 · update #1
Love doenst sucks, people make it sucks.
if u really love someone u never cheat.
2006-07-23 16:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Moh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal. It is not a matter of cheating. It is all about men being victims of the unspoken rivalry amongst females for a dwindling straight male resource.
Competition amongst women for the residual resource of straight men is furious. Just take a look around. So many women look so good, show their assets and are so accommodating. What are men to do in the face of all this pleasing stimuli imposed by females? We are weak and we fold under the pressure.
So if your man tells you he loves you but has some type of relationship with another woman, it does not mean that he does not truly love you. It simply means that one of your female rivals won him over.
Chill out though it may be only temporary.
2006-07-24 00:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by trinidad_03103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain types of guys who are like this because they have always gotten away with things. Not just relationships but everything they do is swept under the rug. Thats probably why you wanted to date him, and thats why it ended up the way it did. People who grow up privledged due to looks or money always expect it to bail them out no matter what. Sad thing is, it usually does-so the cycle continues.....
2006-07-23 23:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by frofus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question by the way...
firstly, you both got to be trusting each other pretty well.
secondly, love grows on the trees with time. if you believe in love at first sight, it may or maynot work. thirdly, many guys say they love you just for the heck of it - they dont really mean it.
2006-07-24 00:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by coolcman007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are going to to what you want to, but if he cheated once he may again. If you take him back start from step one and he must prove to you that he does love you and only want to make love to you.
2006-07-24 00:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by rob2097_1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy who has witnessed this I want to say that any guy who dose that is not really in love and that usually they will not stop. just remember it is a big world and their are lots of us guys who believe that woman should be treated with respect and are faithful. Good luck, and let your heart answer for you
2006-07-23 23:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by etherm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys cheat on girl if there not getting the love back the expect when they say that,thats way the girl they cheat with guys feel there getting the love from her and not the girl they cheat on..........
2006-07-23 23:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont mean it when they say they love you. if they loved you they wouldnt be with someone else. so if a guy tells you he loves you after he cheats tell him its a bunch of bs and leave him.
2006-07-23 23:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the person they love, wont treat them the way they need to be treated and cater to thier needs! Men are dumb.
2006-07-23 23:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by DevelopedBeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they dont know how to control their feelings... so they cheat... and they think that they can
2006-07-23 23:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by *~Rachel~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋