well i have been seein dis guy for 2yrs now and it seems like all we do is just have sex. we talk but not much we say wat we gat to say then we hit the sheets.but now i feel like he's getting bored of that and so am i in a way what to do?
2006-07-23 16:38:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go places. walks rides, site seeing together. to the beach what ever get out of the house more together
2006-07-23 16:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - talk to him and see how he feels .. Tell him that you feel you depend on sex WAY too much and that you should talk more instead of ******* every time the silence hangs in the air..
My husband and I do this - but our problem is TV.. When we are bored we watch TV.. Lately it has gotten better because we are both working now so when we see eachother its exciting and we have alot of stories..
You should try to go out more - sport games, concerts, movies, arcades, restaurants, clubs, bars, race tracks, etc.etc. places where you have to talk to eachother and can't really ****.. well you could but yeah.. lol
Also actually take some more space apart from eachother. Go out more with friends - get a part-time job - take some classes - Do things seperately so that you have more stories and things to actually talk about when you do see eachother.
2006-07-23 23:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, it sounds like he is bored and you are bored. I have a feeling it is too late to make things interesting. If he wanted to be with you for reasons other than sex, he would have done these things already, and maybe so would you. What you have is called a ***** buddy. Not a boyfriend. In fact, you even call him "my guy" not My Lover, or My Boyfriend or My Future Husband.
Can you see yourself marrying this guy? Perhaps it's time to start looking around for someone new, and do it all right.
2006-07-23 23:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on, girl. He's been enjoying large cold glasses of milk with his eggs any time he wants but hasn't ponied up to the table to buy any cows or chickens...if you dig what I'm saying.
Of course he's bored...there are the girls you hump, and then the girls you marry. The two are not neccessarily the same.
Aren't you tired of being an appetizer? Shouldn't you be the main course of someone's life? Time to take your recipe to a new restaurant.
Good luck, girl!
2006-07-23 23:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm that's not good. sometimes couples get along in bed but have nothing in common in other areas...find things you have in common like watching a movie you both would like, or go dancing, bowling, whatever you have in common, something that doesn't necessarily end with sex, and i think you should hold off on the sex for a little while to see if that's what it was all about...good luck :)
2006-07-23 23:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by VIP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tickets to an amusement park.
Get concert tickets.
Don't give him any for 3 months. Tell him that you wanna give it a while so you two can go and do other stuff together and you want to make him want you even more.
2006-07-23 23:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things before i answer your question. 1 dont refer to anyone as my guy please. 2make your sentences flow. now simple, mix it up. dont go on a date simply to have sex, go to have fun without having sex, make him understand that your fun outside of bed too. and make him wait for it, and tease him. then hit him hard, then repeat it over a while always mixing it up.
2006-07-23 23:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by chuckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect, courtesy, humor, and never, never, never nag or scream.
2006-07-23 23:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by Irritable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋