It depends on the situation. Before my best friend committed suicide, he had expressed his wishes that we not dress in subdued or "morbid" colors. I delivered his eulogy wearing a fairly bright rose color. If you are in doubt about what might offend the family, wear darker colors, or at least something that does not draw attention to yourself.
2006-07-23 16:43:06
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answered by bikerpjb 4
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If you like black and people traditionally wear black to "mourn" the loss of a loved one. Then be traditional. But then again, in more recent times people have just started wearing whatever. Show respect either way. This means no short or revealing clothes. And yes navy blue was a good answer. You also answered your own question, anything that is appropriate. Don't stand out though if its traditional, then don't wear a yellow dress. I'm sure you get the point.
2006-07-23 16:41:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Anything would work, really. Of course, muted colors are the most widely regarded colors for "mourning clothes", but it's not necesarry. I wore a black dress with a white sweater to my cousin-in-laws funeral in April. I was nervous at first, because I thought that everyone else would be in black and I would stick out. So when I got to the church, I asked my aunt if she thought I should take the sweater off. She just smiled and told me that my cousin's husband wouldn't care what color my sweater was, he would only care that I was there.
I bet that whoever's funeral you're going to would probably think the same thing.
2006-07-23 17:07:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Etiquette dictates the bereaved and other attendees at a funeral wear semi-formal clothing—such as a suit and tie for men or a dress for women—in a darker color (usually, gray, dark blue or black). Wearing short skirts, low-cut tops, or, at Western funerals, a large amount of white (other than a button-down shirt or blouse, or a military uniform) is often seen as disrespectful. Women who are grieving the death of their husband or a close boyfriend sometimes wear a veil to conceal the face, although the veil is not common now.
It is a distinct rudeness to leave a mobile telephone on audible mode at a funeral service, as its ringing automatically interrupts the service.
2006-07-23 16:44:59
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answered by Jáe 2
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Most any color is appropriate, just remember that the more basic the better. This is a time when you don't want to draw attention and also to show respect. If it is something that you question as a general rule of thumb you just shouldn't wear it.
2006-07-23 17:54:37
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answered by Anonymous
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You only have to wear black if it's your dad or mom or some other close relative.
If it's someone elses funeral, you can wear anything that is modest. Color doesn't matter A LOT. Just don't wear anything bright like white, yellow, pink.
You just don't want to look like you're happy they died is all.
2006-07-23 16:40:07
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answered by Mama R 5
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Black isn't necessary for a funeral. Just something with subdued color, clean lines, and moderately conservative. You don't want to be distracting anyone or calling attention to yourself. That's really the point of it.
2006-07-23 16:44:07
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answered by misslabeled 7
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I just wore dark brown to a funeral a few weeks ago. I saw someone there wearing a bright red suit... it kinda reminded me of the crazy-psycho-mother wearing red to her daughter's repast in "The Sixth Sense".
2006-07-23 16:39:43
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answered by mogwai_b4_midnite 4
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Do you know if the departed had a favorite color? If so, and if not too obtrusive, how about wearing that? Or maybe there was a color the departed liked seeing you in...try that as well, if applicable. Condolences to the bereaved...
2006-07-23 16:41:04
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answered by R C 4
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Funerals are considered a somber party, subsequently, try no longer to illustrate numerous pores and skin. because you're low on money, any darkish coloration on your cloth cabinet will do or suffice. i recommend the black pumps, black slacks and black cami with the cardigan.
2016-11-25 20:44:06
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answered by parenti 4
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