Well i am 16 years old.... there is this girl i really really like and i have been talking to her for about 9 10 months...but the thing is that i dont know if she likes me back..and it seems she does but i dont know.....i know he easiest way to find out is to ask her..i know....but what if she doesnt...i am just going to be standing there like a fool when i ask her...its just weird..i mean i think she likes me to....but i dont know for sure...so if yall can help me out plz...like what are some signs i could look for when i talk to her..i know flirting but like what type of flirting...or the signs of flirting..anything ike that......or anything in that area......if yall need more info on this here is my aim....elmozakky.....or my yahoo im.....elmo_zakky...or jus email me on yahoo....elmo_zakky@yahoo.com.... plz anyone....
2006-07-23 16:30:19 · 12 answers · asked by Zac d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly.. i think you should go for it... i know that is probably what everyone will say and i know thats what you are expecting its true though. Girls like when guys are confident and just go for it instead of taking a long time, them talking to all her friends, ext.. i know it may be imbarrasing but many other girls will think that it was great how you handled it and so if you dont get her then you will eventually prolly start finding other girls who do like you. Signs though of her likeing you if it is still really hard include asking yourself a couple questions...
1. if she has a reputation of not really being shy then it could mean two things.. shes too imbarrased to talk to you cause she likes you or it means that she already knows you like her so just ask her out.
2. if she is kinda touchy-feely then it prolly means that she is already comfertable around you and she deffinitly finds some sort of interest in you.
3. if her friends are always questioning you or are talking to you about her or about you then it could mean she has talked about you to them and has a big interest in you because her friends are obviously trying to figure things out...
there are many other things and its hard to just pick a couple when i dont know her or anything about her. You can email me though and tell me more about her and how she is in front of you and i would be happy to help!
2006-07-23 16:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her how she feels about you and the relationship. If you want to save face in case it's something opposite of what you think/feel, then write her a letter or ask in an e-card or something. That way she can write back or respond through email.
2006-07-23 23:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by been there..done that 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to your question is in your question. maybe you are scared of what shell say. but hasnt she been talking to you for 9 or 10 months. thats a pretty sure sign. if you wait to long she may give up on you. she might be waiting for the same. dont loose her to someone else who isnt scared. loves just a scary leap but if you want it then you must jump . good luck
2006-07-23 23:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by rdnckgal_gonwild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, actually i was just in this type of situation...im a girl and i was wondering if the guy liked me too, so i would just tell you to just ask her if she likes you..............just say hey i really like you and then see what she says. i know its hard, but someone has to ask the other person cuz if not, then you will end up like me.......we dont talk anymore
2006-07-23 23:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by jimpermaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just ask her because then you would know..and if she had been talking to you for 10 months that kinda obvious why would she spend time talking to a boy for that long if she doesnt like you
2006-07-23 23:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask her -
asking her is 'down-magic'
telling her you like her is 'down-magic'
show your like of her - let your enjoyment of her be visible - smiling, laughing, relaxing, joking, talking
if she responds positively to this, you know that she likes being liked and enjoyed by you
you will feel the pools of your separate beings flow together and mix and swirl together - and then there will be no question
you can tell she likes you if she goes out with you, if she spends time with you - relax
relaaaaaaaax
2006-07-23 23:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter, email her, message or call her. That way you arnt "standing there" looking like a jackass. If she says no, then you can say, okay gotta go, or something.
2006-07-23 23:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by boit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you have said: Ask her! If you ask her you not only relieve your self from worrying about this but if she does really like you like that then you can ask her to be your girlfriend!!
2006-07-23 23:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask her. If she turns you down. try again. You cdan try, you can fail, you can try you can fail. But the only true failure is when you stop trying.
So what do I want you to do?
Try again.
2006-07-23 23:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm.....maybe she blushes or laughs a lot when she talks 2 u. or she acts like she doesn't want u, or she kinda feels on u, i guess. i dont giv signs, they come 2 me....LOL
2006-07-23 23:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋