question after question all the advise in the world hasnt helped . if i even pic his face it brings me to my knees. hes in my every breath. he is my thoughts. my body ackes to hold him. my heart wants to scream. this is so unfair . how do i let go of something that is me . he is my world. but how do i tell him? we both know it could never work to much stands in the way but my heart refuses to listen. it fight with all its might . is he my soul mate . will i be ok or will this end me? does time really heal this kind of pain . omg i cant stand this pain . plz help me i dont want to be lost in this. i cant be strong.
2006-07-23 16:22:59 · 14 answers · asked by rdnckgal_gonwild 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes.
you need to tell him.
and if he shuts you out, then you need to seek solace and help.
possibly from relegion... very comforting that... it's why relegion still exists.
a soulmate is somebody whom you love completely and totaly. somebody who you want to spend the rest of your life with. somebody who you view as perfect. they are your other half, as it were.
the odd thing about soulmates is that they are sometimes from different countries, different languages, cultures, races, sometimes they force you to rethink your life.
they might even be the same gender as you.
your soulmate will always be there for you
and they make you happy and try to help you
no matter what. they feel the same way about you, at least on some level
2006-07-23 16:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will get better with time & no, I don't think he's your soul mate. I don't know that I even believe in such a thing, but if I were you I'd take this time to get to know myself & analyze what went wrong here & what you could do better/different in the future. The pain does get better & I can tell you from experience that the older I get the easier I bounce back from these little setbacks. I guess you just learn that in the grand scheme of things there are too many people in this great big world to lose too much sleep over someone. The pain will get better & it will subside...when? I can't say, it's different for each person as we're all at a different point in our journey, but it will get better & in time you'll look back on this & say what did I ever see in this person? Be strong, I have faith that you'll be fine. Take care.
2006-07-23 23:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you, but it WILL get better. Lean on friends and family, that's what they're there for. Talk to someone about it, a therapist, a pastor, but don't keep it all bottled up inside. Keep busy and do things that make you happy. Don't dwell on thoughts of him. Don't do things that make you think about him too much, like search for answers on here, especially when you're alone.
I'm telling you this from recent experience. Some of the don'ts above I've done and learned from them. You'll get past this with time. It sucks while it's going on and you just want it to go away. But there's no magic answer, just things you can do to lessen the pain.
A soul mate to me is someone who you connect with on a deep level. You understand each other better than anyone and you don't have to know each other long to figure that out. I also think there can be more than one person like that, but I think they're rare. And when you find one, you don't want to let go of them. But sometimes you have to. Like I am having to now.
2006-07-23 23:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might be his, but not sure what obstacles stand in the way, you say "we both know it could never work", and there is your biggest obstacle cos nothing is impossible.
A soul mate is so meant to be that logic and reason cannot remove what is, and where god predestines a relationship it will only hurt when it meets resistance.....Nothing is impossible
2006-07-23 23:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, the feelings will pass.
i don't believe in soul mates much anymore. Even the ones you think are going to be perfect for you end up turning into someone completely different on you after awhile anyway.
2006-07-23 23:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Talamascaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Time will help heal you, if you let it...you may be extremely attracted and/or connected to this person, but if you cannot be together then move on with your life...sometimes Life cruelly works that way...there will be other loves however (trust me) if you open yourself to them when you are ready...
Cherish this feeling though, because many never experience it...don't let it end you, but let it carry you forward...knowing how wonderful you CAN feel about someone...
You are lucky to have experienced it, even if it hurts now...let your heart heal...good luck...
2006-07-23 23:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the Wikipedia answer:
Soulmate (or soul mate) is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep affinity, friendship, love, strong intimacy, sexuality, or compatibility.
2006-07-23 23:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you're trying to be poetic, or your trying answer your own question. From what you said, I think he is your soul mate. Or maybe just your current love. If he's not your soul mate,like I think he is, then I am.
2006-07-23 23:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if have a smile on his face every time when he sees u.if yes then its truth that he is ur soul mate
2006-07-23 23:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I don't date. The thoughts and feelings running through your head are scaring me. I am glad im single.
2006-07-23 23:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋