2006-07-23 16:21:05 · 21 answers · asked by sisterof_3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know the right answer to this question. you know that it is good and best to wait until marriage to have sex. dont let the world fool you into doing otherwise because i believe you are smarter than that.
that's what God wants you to do. HE wants to preserve you not because HE just wants to spoil your life but because HE knows that it is only within the context of marriage that you can enjoy the pleasure of each other (with your husband) without having to worry about anything else. it is only when you can enjoy sex at its purest and at its best and it is when you can experience true joy and thats God's intentions... do u really want to trade His perfect intentions with the intentions of the world? the world only lies to you and lure you into a trap and destroy your life... but God wants you to experience true life and true joy.
in marriage you can have all the sex you want...and there will be nothing wrong with it. it will be the most meaningful and pleasurable experience that two married couples can share and they wont have to worry about someone taking responsibility when the woman gets pregnant because they have all the right to have a baby. its so exciting to think about when that day comes. so couldn't you just wait for that time?---it will come soon but you have to wait first. with waiting you reap great rewards.
and you dont just marry someone because you want sex with them..you wait for the right person that God will give you. dont worry...HE answers that question really.... trust me...
2006-07-23 16:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I know I will become the demon incarnate for my answer, but don't confuse sex with love. They are two separate entities. Sex is a natural human function. When you start associating sex with love, is when problems arise. Using sex to prove your love is a travesty because when you love someone, sex is at the bottom of the list for showing love. Sex proves nothing. It is a natural body function that feels real good.
And "giving up" your virginity is a societal stigma. You do it when you are mature enough to handle the responsibility. Just like driving. You can't drive, drink, gamble, or vote for that matter until you are mature enough to do so. Having sex is a right of passage, that feels real good. Did I say that already? Don't sweat it and you won't get hurt. You get yours when you are ready and responsible.
And the only regret I have about "losing" my virginity is that I got pregnant. I wasn't old enough or responsible enough. I should have waited and not give into peer pressure. That's my two cents (ten points) worth.
2006-07-23 23:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Such A Fn Lady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is best if you wait. God designed marriage to be that way and it's the best. I messed around with my husband before we got married, and yes, I regret that. I wish we would have waited. We would have been so much better off that way.
You want to get to know the person, and not their body. After you get to know their body, it's harder to get to know the person. So it's better waiting and after you get married, you have a lot of time getting to know their body.
Oh, and you won't regret waiting until your wedding night either. Think of how it will be. No, you may not be perfect that night, but you have the rest of your life to perfect it!! Also you don't have to worry about becoming pregnant or getting STD's if you wait.
2006-07-23 23:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best to wait till marriage, and no, I do not regret giving up my virginity.
2006-07-23 23:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Seeking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely regret giving up my virginity. I thought I was truly in love with the first man I slept with and that it was perfect. Now that I have my better half and it is so beautiful and so amazing, I am so sad and so sorry that I ever experienced that with anyone else. I would give anything to take it back.
2006-07-23 23:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best to wait for a committed and loving relationship, and some days I do (only because that committed guy turned into a control hog, not worthy of my time), but mostly I don't.
2006-07-23 23:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by SnakEve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always, you just know that it is right and that is when it happens. I am going to try and wait until I married but things may change. I think that your personal moral values are the most important thing to take into consideration, if you understand. If you feel ready then you are, and then again you may not be.
2006-07-24 10:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by J-Bird 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm waiting until marriage
2006-07-23 23:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Rock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i Ithink that it is important to wait until marraige. no one can force you to do it, you have to be ready. when you get older, you might want a husband,dont you think that you would give it up to the person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with?
i had a so called "boyfriend". We were going out for a month and he asked me when his parents went away,i said no and then he got mad so we broke up.{He was cheeting with someone that he could get it from!}
Take care of your self k.
2006-07-23 23:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jo*Nelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are more attached to your first, if you have sex before you'll regret it,I mean wouldn't you want the person you were going to spend the rest of your life with to be your first time also?/
2006-07-23 23:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋