2006-07-23 16:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Someone behaving 'clingy and jealous' has nothing to do with the colour of their skin. I have met black men who are also clingy with their girlfriends and very jealous minded and others who are not... it is about emotions and your relationship... talk to her, gently, compassionately..if you would like to work on this with her and improve things. There is most likely a very good reason why she feels and acts this way. If you care about her and love her, help yourself, her and your mutual relationship by looking a little deeper and communicating with her. No particular race, culture, skin colour etc has more of a tendency for jealous or clingy behaviour. Anyone, black, white, male or female can act this way sometimes... and there is a reason behind it..it is part of being human. It's a little sad that you could think this way.
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Message to 'flowergirl' above.... not ALL females are hostile creatures, there are many of us who are compassionate, loving and emotionally intelligent enough not to behave in a spiteful, threatened way. I'm sorry that there have not been more good supportive females around you. :o)
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2006-07-27 13:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
As far as I know, it isn't just white girls. Females in general are very hostile creatures by nature. They seem to feel threatened by eachother. In general, if a guy doesn't like someone he will just tell them. A girl will be more likely to simply talk about the person behind their back. Guy are usually much more rational... this is why most of my friends are guys. Girls stress me out.
2006-07-23 23:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no stereotype but your girlfriend may be clingy because she feels society will question her right to be with u and u may leave her for a black girl. I notice that whenever me and my black gilfriends walk by a black man with a white girlfriend she always gives us nasty stares and gets in real close and personal with him like she is marking her territory. this has happened several times. let her know that u like her for her and she is not just a novelty to u. reassure her that no other woman especially a black one will steal u away in the night.
2006-07-23 23:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Crewgirl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's just the way your white girlfriend is, not all white women.
2006-07-23 23:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us are. And girls of other orientations can be like that too ya know.
2006-07-23 23:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz they can't get a black guy lik you.And whatever you do don't spend time wit them alone always,ALWAYS have your girl around!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-23 23:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋