2006-07-23 16:13:56 · 24 answers · asked by JoeIQ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm just curious, I don't even have a gf right now.
2006-07-23 16:19:05 · update #1
Okay I'll have to break this down for you:
1. You have to set this up by giving your girl oral sex and being atleast ok at it!
2. Have a casual conversation sometime when you are both having a good time and maybe both a little drunk(on love or alchohol..whateever works for you)!Ask her about her sexual fantasies.
3. after she tells you hers then tell her youd like to feel like a BIG BAD PORN STAR one night together and do something wild like they do!
4. when she asks you what you tell her you'd like to try AN#$ once to see if it turned her on or made her fell good and make you feel like a porn star all at the same time.
5. no matter what she says one night in the immediate future after the earlier conversation tell her you wanna have a speacial night together....... Cook her dinner (if you cant cook then order the food from a decent restaurent and replate it to make it look good even if you tell her you didnt cook it..........Have dinner with her......... have a couple glasses of wime or whatever and pop in and watch a porn with her. make sure you pick one with AN@# in it with the girl going crazy and enjoying it! But one with class and one whose story line includes her fantasy as well which will intrest her!
6. Get intimate and start having sex.......while you go down on her use extra saliva and get her really wet and either:
A. go a lil father south and lick her AN^$
B. play with the area with your wet thumb
c. Both
7. IF she goes for all of the above and doesnt stop you then probe the area with you thumb! but gently and slowly all while pleasing her with your mouth! From there you know what to do!
You will likely get stopped the first time or two. IF and when you do just start all over and repeat next time you hang with her. All the while working on her......... if you get shut down 5 times then she aint with it so deal w/ it or get a new girl!
But most important RESPECT her and keep it quiet and she'll try it again! And use KY jelly that you hide in your secret spot and ofcourse a condom!
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2006-07-23 16:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by bigsho222 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that you are older than freaking 16 on here.. and are acutally an adult in real relationship..
First, you talk to her about it in a nice moment.. You can't just grab her and start ******* her up the ***.. You tell her you REALLY want to try it and what would she think about that? If she seems open then cool.. Skip to step 2.. If she is totally grossed out and prudish about it then just try to explain to her how badly you want to try it and if she will at least give it a chance that you will do something for her.. Rather she wants oral or jsut a massage or a nice dinner.. Relationships are about communication & compromise.. Even if you are a total prevert don't approach her in a preverted way..
You have to get her in the mood first so it won't just totally feel to her like she is being raped.. THEN try to continue rubbing her or something while you are doing it .. Talk to her.. Tell her you love her and that it feels good..
You have to be careful and not just be rough the first time or you can totally rip it up and bleed..
Use a condom
Use LOTS of lubricant / KY Jelly
Be very gentle
If she starts crying or it hurts her too badly for all means please don't keep hurting her.. Try again another time
2006-07-23 23:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant get her to do anythin she wont want to do and in my opinion anal sux and kinda hurts usually when goin in. I personally dont like it that much unless we are in the shower and/or i am really horny lol but the way my man got me to do it is he told me it feels good for him and i like pleasin him so i did it and now he will ask and sometimes i'll say no then he will say please then drop it for a lil then ask again and then usually cause he is askin rather then just doin it i will let it do it but you should try to finger her, play wit her clit or have her finger herself when or if u get her to do it cause then it will be pleasurable for the both of u and it will also make it less uncomfortable for her
2006-07-23 23:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Just_A_Goof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest? I would just ask her. Honesty is the best policy when it comes to intamacy. Sorry if the answer was a little too old for you. LOL. You should never force anything upon her and "get her to do something". Be nice.
2006-07-23 23:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by degs1982@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her every sexual fantasy she ever wanted and tell her how beautiful she is, how much you adore her, how you'll do all the cooking and cleaning for the next month etc... then she might feel like satisfying your desires!
2006-07-23 23:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let her know you'd like to do that with her, and if she says it's kewl, then you go from there...
If she's just not into trying it, don't push...some women won't even consider anal sex...for some it's never comfortable...
All you can do is ask...after that, it's her call..
2006-07-23 23:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really the first step is to get a girlfriend
2006-07-23 23:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus wait till she comes around on the subject but dont push it jus ask her every now and again
2006-07-23 23:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to break up with her if she refuses to. That will really strengthen your relationship.
2006-07-23 23:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very slowly
2006-07-23 23:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋