Ok so i have been with my girlfriend going on a year and i have touched her(sexualy). We have gotten each other exited but that that is as far as it goes. And i am getting blues balls and i do take care of. But i really love her and she always says she has somthing in the past that scars her in her head and i want her to tell me because i am a listener and she doesnt want to tell me but i dont want to do anything to hurt her mentaly(or physically i am one of the good ones). But she tells me that if she feels weird she wont do anything(we have plans tuesday)and we will be alone for half the day and i dont pressure her into anything. But i am getting tired of finishing myself but i wouldnt want anyone else but her to do it. But i know for a fact that she is sexual just not have sex she is still a virgin so am i. So what can i do to have fun tuesday?
2006-07-23 16:13:54 · 6 answers · asked by BAM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it depends if it's decent or just lust. but whatever i'll help you anyway. coming from a lady: find out what makes her horny. even tho she's a virgin if you make her horny enough she will wanna f*ck no matter what! since you've made eachother horny already, then just maximize it. or tone it down. like go slow. mabey watch a movie with her that has sex in it. cause girls may not admit it, but when they see a sex scene (with a hot guy) it makes them hot for it. then slowly start kissing her passionatly. then work your way up.
2006-07-23 16:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Cirque Du Freak 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not surprise the hell out of her and make no moves on her. Just cuddle and keep her on that level, never getting excited. Tell her that you don't want to pressure her, or let her think the relationship is about sex, that you guys are about more than that and it doesn't matter if you do it now or not. Let her know that you do want her very much, but not at the cost of her being unhappy and you want to keep it mellow so both of you are not in agony. She will respect you for it and become more comfortable with you
2006-07-23 23:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by SnakEve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...you have to respect your girl whatever happened to her past. you dont have to know if she doesnt want you to know!..anyway there are more better things than having *** with her. do some recreations and stuffs...
just wait for the right time and dont rush things so fast..
2006-07-23 23:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Go do something you both like. It will happen when the time is right. It is never good to rush things.
2006-07-23 23:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by degs1982@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her what she wants to do she might say "lets hav sex babe."
2006-07-23 23:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to have sex to have fun. You could ask her about oral.
2006-07-23 23:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋