I know this girl for about a year now...we're in the same club...I dont really talk to her...but this is what happened yesterday..we had a club meeting...I was sitting by myself..she came over and said "why are you sitting by yourself", then i said, "i dont know, i felt like sitting here by myself", she didnt even listen to what i said. then she said," ok then, let me sit here and talk to you", so we ended up talking about random stuff for like 30 minutes...and toward the end ot the meeting..she asked me if im going to another club meeting on wednesday....so yea..i dont know if she's hitting on me or she just wanta talk to me because i was sitting myself...but the funny thing though..she's pretty quiet too..i have never seen her talking to someone in the club..well not for a long conversation.
2006-07-23 16:11:54 · 22 answers · asked by bob s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awwwwww! I think that is sooooo sweet. My husband was really shy like that, so I went up to him and demanded that he be my boyfriend and marry me! (Okay, just kidding about demanding), but I knew he was the one. Well anywho! From what I'm reading, it sounds that maybe you like her a little bit too? That's good. But! Play it coooooooool! Trust me. During the next couple of club meetings, just talk to her and get to know her. Perhaps, she may ask you out, or if not, you go for it and ask her out. I am sure she would say yeah. She may be as apprehensive as you are. You said so yourself that she never speaks to anyone else. Just take your time and let things fall naturally into place, and have fun.
2006-07-23 16:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that it's to early to no what she really meant by it. The best thing to do would prolly be to just keep it slow for now and don't do anything to big. Just keep talking to her and see where things lead to. She might just be looking for a friend but on the other hand she might dig u. get to no her better and even if it turns out she isn't really into u then at least u made a friend eh? It also depends on if u like her as well. If u don't, then there’s no sense in doing anything that might lead her to think u like her more then u really do.
2006-07-23 23:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your laying in the road and you have blood all over you and you see a bus just passed more then likely you were hit by the bus. Yeah you were being hit on. If you like her you better start showing her your interested. Ask her out. The biggest fear in life is fear. Live for today. Do something out of character and just do it.
2006-07-23 23:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by reprap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, I would think that she would just think of you as a friend. Keep it low until there are other "signs." Be friendly though, and try not to weird out if she's the only one talking to you. Good luck with everything!
2006-07-23 23:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being friends first and see where it takes you. It just sounds like she's looking for more people to be friends with and has been pretty nice to you. Don't jump to conclusions just yet; it could freak her out. Just keep talking and see what happens. Hope that helped! :)
2006-07-23 23:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should really just talk to her as friends for the moment. You dont want to jump to conclusions and ask her out if she could possibly just started talking to you because you were either lonely or just to get to know you.
2006-07-23 23:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest just be friendly with her and see if it goes in a romantic direction. It's possible that she is interested, but then you don't want to come on too strong, it just may be that she is interested because of your quiet nature.
2006-07-23 23:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by cbharr10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i no how u feel, it happend to me 2, in class when there was like 5 mins left this girl would come up 2 me and start talking i knew she liked me, she even said she wants to have kids with me, but i already like someone else and she wasnt my type.
i think she likes u
If u think shes cute or u have a feelin that u might like her get 2 no her, but if yur gut says u dont like her then lay low
2006-07-23 23:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by LaZlow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it but not too far
mabye she just wants to be friends or mabye she
is hittin you you b.c she likes you you never know
until you try ... so go for it and see what happens
p.s pick me as best answer haha =)
2006-07-23 23:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by natty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the first time a girl talks to you, it is because she wants to jump your bones?? Be nice to her and after you make friends with her THEN jump her bones.
2006-07-23 23:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by Augie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋