I've known a woman for close to 4 years at work now. We became close friends and became much closer these last few months after she dumped her boyfriend, where we started dating and we had sex for the 1st time June 7th. I wasn't told that she was pregnant until a couple weeks ago, and she me told she was 4 months that first night. I'm scared if I was putting a lot of pressure on the womb area unknowingly during sex or if it was occasionally a little rough. Will the baby be ok??? will she be ok??? (concerned, and a little scared.! I'm new to all this)
2006-07-23 16:09:32 · 23 answers · asked by concerned 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Ok man, back up a little bit... Let's think about this...
The girl is 4 months pregnant she's having sex with new partners?
Yes, the act of sex while pregnant is healthy.
BUT, the fact that she can't wait until her baby is born to take on a new sexual partner doesn't sit well with me at all.
What people don't do is think...
I'm not saying that you have Herpes....
But what if you did?
What if you didn't know you did?
Condoms DO NOT protect you from Herpes!
She's risking her baby's eyesight not to mention numerous other health risks.
I hope you look at the big picture, my friend, because most people don't.
Will the baby be ok? It's a dice roll.
Will she be ok? She isn't ok now.
I suggest you do the smart thing...
Stay out of the Birth Canal until it becomes a Vagina again!!
2006-07-23 16:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by Enya Mau 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No need to worry at all! I've had sex with my wife right up to the day she's gone into the hospital. After the 6th or 7th month you'll have to use specific positions for obvious reasons! Unless you are hung like a horse, there is no injury to the baby. (Though if he comes out with a dent on his forehead and giving you dirty looks, you'll know why.)
2006-07-23 23:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both mommy and baby should be fine. I've had two children and had sex with my husband throughout both pregnancies. In fact, my second was born like 5 hours after we had sex. Both children were born fine and healthy with no complications. If you were hurting your partner during sex, she probably would have told you, especially since she was pregnant. So I'm sure they're both fine. If you're still unsure, just ask her.
2006-07-23 23:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under normal circumstances, a pregnant woman can have sex throughout the pregnancy. It is considered very poor taste to do so in the delivery room.
2006-07-23 23:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to worry. The baby is in a sac of water that is inside the uterus. There are a lot of layers there to protect the baby. Almost all women have sex while they are pregnant.
2006-07-23 23:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by crystal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can have sex all the way until the last month or so. the amniotic sac will prevent the baby from getting bacteria from the vag, and as long as you are gentle, your ok. just don't be going too rough, and try doggy, so there isn't anything laying on the baby.
2006-07-23 23:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Adam S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its all good... rugh sex soft sex what ever unless she says "STOP" then your probably hurting her or she feels like its hurting the baby.its actully good 4 pregnant women to have sex because it steches the muscles of the vergina and it can make it easier 4 a vaginal birth... i watch a lot of life time birth shows and i pay a lot attention to what pregnant ppl can do and cant.
2006-07-27 22:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by monicalee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine! I had sex up until the day i went into labor! I was actually 2 weeks late-i think maybe it helped her come out! But really,it's FINE.
2006-07-23 23:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by bannelee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had not just sex, but the BEST sex, while I was pregnant -- right up until the week I gave birth. And all my girls are beautiful and intelligent.
2006-07-23 23:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by bikerpjb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll be fine. Me & my boyfriend had sex all the way up till I was seven months
2006-07-23 23:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by chutkey73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋