am i doin the right thing by calling my boyfriend daily without gettin a phone call frm him in return?
2006-07-23 16:06:44 · 22 answers · asked by poo poo h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are sincerely worried, then yes. But if you are just trying to find out where he is and nag him, no.
My advice: Don't play yourself. I know you're having a baby by this guy, but if how he's acting now is any indication of how he'll be when the baby arrives, honey, you don't need him! If he doesn't want to be around for you and that baby, then let him go. Because having no father is better then having a father that doesn't want you! That baby deserves better. He/she didn't ask to be brought into this world. Do what is in the best interest of your baby. Leave the father of the baby alone, and if he truly wants to be apart of both of you guys lives he'll be back. Congrats on your baby, by the way. I wish you all the best.
Best Wishes!
2006-07-23 16:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you decide to leave him, y'all need to talk about the situation because together or not as a couple, you're still going to (both) have a child to be responsible for...maybe the situation is just hitting him hard right now and he's taken some distance to think about it...
If he won't take your calls, go see him...if you two decide to end things, then make sure the necessary arrangements are made so that the child is taken care of regardless...
2006-07-23 16:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, first how old are u. if u are under 21 year old it's better not to keep the baby bec if u keep it , it's not easy to feed u should , and what i think u should put a stop there stop calling for the next 5days and u will know why i ask u to. the more u call him the more he take it for grented. sorry if there is any spelling error hope u will forgive me. i'm not really good in english.
2006-07-23 16:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by shawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, only call if you need to, in your condition, you need the help. Don't chase behind him if he wants to start acting weird. Right now the main concern is the baby, if he wants to act funny with you forget about it and remind him that he better be there for the baby.
2006-07-23 16:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by annarenee83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait wait wait. you obtain decrease back at the same time even even as he cheated?! No i dont imagine so. you should go away frequently because he's searching after yet another ladies infant! There probable nevertheless at the same time (of you recognize waht i propose). you would possibly want to be mad at him. extremely. i does no longer have even appeared decrease back once you first got here across out he cheated. How did you detect out that he cheated? Did he allow you to recognize? if so thats solid that he's straightforward. in case you got here across out yet differently then i dont understand actual. very few issues that you could think about. wish i helped?
2016-10-15 03:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that you ask this question suggests to me that you had it in your mind to leave him as soon as he'd made you pregnant. There are women who make a living have a baby by one man after another, then taking each of them to court to get half his income as child support. Maybe you're one of those.
2006-07-23 16:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by David S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your man are creating a universe for a new child. Then you both need S P A C E.
2006-07-23 16:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you are calling him, then he figures he doesnt have to call you back, if you are having his child for ***** sake stay with him if he is going to father the child, getting rid of the father is the worst thing to do.
2006-07-23 16:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sound like you are doing all the running to him. Dont call for a day or so and give him the chance to miss you.
2006-07-23 16:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know that you are having his baby, if so it is obvious that he isn't ready for fatherhood and maybe leaving him is the best thing. But you need to keep contact open for the sake of the baby
2006-07-23 16:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Legal Eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋